Ahmad :
Maryam, no one is saying that raising a hand against someone is right, and mistakes should not be justified. However, fairness requires looking at the situation from both sides. In a marriage, both partners can sometimes make mistakes, show disrespect, or hurt each other’s feelings.
If your husband is truly sorry for what he did, has sincerely apologized, cried, and is doing everything he can to save your marriage, it may be worth taking some time to think calmly before making a final decision. One moment of anger should not erase all the good memories, love, and efforts built over the years.
Forgiveness does not mean forgetting what happened; it means giving someone the opportunity to make things right and become a better person. If there is still even a small amount of love and hope left in your heart, give him the chance to prove through his actions that he has learned from his mistake.
Sometimes a family can be saved through patience, understanding, and forgiveness, while a rushed decision can lead to regret later. I pray that God guides both of you toward the best path and grants you peace and wisdom in your decision.
2026-06-24 20:21:27