@yourfriendellen: Replying to @Valley.Below firmly believe it’s a form of abuse #parenting #motherhood #middleclass #parentsoftiktok

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katiereneeallday
Katie Renee :
Yep. I have 2 and that’s my limit in all the areas
2026-07-15 22:31:00
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tiffwontbackdown
TiffanyJo :
People think they’re owed children and a family. You’re not. We all want things in life. I want a unicorn. Will it happen? Likely not. You can want kids and not have them because it’s not the right decision. I know! It’s hard to accept that you can’t have what you want, but when the thing you want is a HUMAN, you have to think about what’s best for them, not you. And if you can’t provide what’s best, then you are not what’s best for a child. Being grown is having to accept that you don’t always get what you want in life, and that’s okay!
2026-06-25 11:27:46
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blacklotusbakery
BlackLotus_ :
We can financially afford more than 2 kids. I can’t emotionally provide for more than 2 kids. I enjoy spending quality time with both kids and spending 1 on 1 time with each kid.
2026-06-25 03:22:53
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shan.and.dogs
shan, luna & nova 🐾 :
Girl I can’t even afford one that’s why I’m NOT HAVING ONE!!
2026-06-25 16:01:50
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amiah.29
Amiah.29 :
As someone who has 14 siblings, you are absolutely correct. I basically had to raise myself. I left home at 16 and rarely visit.
2026-06-25 17:21:24
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teacherunionthug
Bryan, History Teacher :
Capitalism is the problem
2026-06-24 21:15:55
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_witty_kitty_
WK :
I know my mental and financial health is not strong enough for children and it pains my mother every day. She won't cease to bring up the fact that she made it work back in 1994. Ma'am its no longer 1994.
2026-06-24 20:36:49
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itsbrittanybxtch_
Bickyyyyyyyy :
No literally. Because our household income is over $200k and we have ONE child and I STILL have concerns about having another
2026-06-25 21:01:30
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christinawegford
Christina Wegford :
my parents really wanted 4 or 5 kids but stopped after 2 bc they knew they couldn't afford it. my mom has said it several times that raising the 2 she had was more important than hypothetical future kids.
2026-06-25 10:54:23
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loveeee9019
Leah :
It also parentifies the oldest children
2026-06-25 21:48:58
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squirrelinmybrain
squirrelinmybrain :
Children deserve two things - parents that want them and love them, and a safe and secure home that includes the necessary resources to support them.
2026-06-24 23:00:59
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dee_thearies
Dee 💕 :
😭 This shouldn’t be controversial
2026-06-25 14:29:55
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hallej86
Halle :
I am a really good mom. To ONE child. I don't know how good I would be to multiple.
2026-06-25 01:55:55
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maryc_hunter
Mary :
Fr. We’re a two income household and thinking about having another kid in daycare is sooo stressful 😭
2026-06-27 14:55:11
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pumpkinanddanny97
Itspumpkinanddanny97 :
I have a cat shes enough for me right know.
2026-06-28 05:03:26
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mizvirgo19x1
mizvirgo19🫶🏻💙 :
Sorry but it’s a financial decision.
2026-06-24 23:39:30
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tweengoat
Sugar✨✨✨✨ :
I have only child and I had her in my 30s.... I'm also 41.
2026-06-25 15:14:42
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noydb01
noydb :
I could afford four and I had two. My children will not have school loans and we can help them thrive
2026-06-25 15:06:59
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mistydew
mistyrae :
How can I just keep liking this? You deserve a million likes for this take. RAISING CHILDREN IS A PRIVILEGE.
2026-06-26 12:07:31
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c.m_land
c.m_land :
I have two and I REFUSE to have another. I won’t be able to provide the life I want to another child. My kids do allllllllll the extracurriculars they want, band, dance, golf, football, basketball, baseball, gymnastics. We go on vacation once a year and spend as much money as we want. Christmas is LAVISH. I want my kids to look back on their childhood and see how good we made it. Another child and we wouldn’t be able to provide that lifestyle
2026-06-25 22:47:53
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naturalbee12
bee🫶 :
my husband and i can afford one probs two and we will be only having one lol
2026-06-24 19:43:06
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hikitty38
💕🌈KiTTy🌈💕 :
Financial AND emotional investment period
2026-06-25 20:56:27
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bright.eyes683
Bright Eyes :
As someone who has been a single parent since the age of 17, I promise you that nothing bad is going to happen if you wait to start a family. In fact, things can only get better the longer you put off having children
2026-06-26 01:33:32
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thepaytonproject
Payton Dale :
Love my kid so much I’m not having her 💁🏻‍♀️
2026-06-25 01:41:16
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ms88waffles
Danni Kaohn/Fetters :
1 chicken nugget and 6 fries?!?! My 21 month old puts down 6 nuggets and a medium fry like it’s nothing!!
2026-06-25 13:41:43
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