@chris_hatfield: POV: They've been online but not replied #texting #anxiousattachment #overthinking #losinginterest #intuition

Sarah :

Where is the line drawn tho? Like I’ve been learning to control my anxious thoughts and build internal security but how do I tell the difference between my anxiousness and what’s actually happening? I’m finding it hard to tell the difference when it’s my own mind spiraling and my anxiety speaking from the actual facts

🎣🦌Raelee🚘🏁 :

Needed this. My biggest trigger.

Luna :

ive learned if they are choosing to not read my messages thats on them. I tried and put in effort. they dont want to. thats on THEM

metalmelton :

I give it a week now. if you dont message me within that time I take a break 1st and move on after 2-3 months

Nali❤️ :

Geri :

90% of the time in my case, when I see her online but not answering my text she rejects me in a couple days.

robdob :

She replies w lengthy replies pretty often. But I’m always the one starting the convos. Thoughts?

jakiol67 :

what's annoying my partner has a habit of opening messages and not replying even important ones it gets exhausting

. :

i used to give power on the text to determine my mood and current state >Recent my girl an avoidant has been dealing with some melts down and I added her some pressure by constant texting but I faced her in person only to know she was drowning