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cutie._.jaay
Jaycee Glass :
Maybe if the conflict was one sided? Although, I think having some cool down time is best for anyone, it’s draining to argue with someone and taking 10 mins or 30 mins to cool down is okay! As long as your partner is aware of your needs. Vise versa
2026-06-29 20:51:55
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bradley.d9204
b.___d :
Wrong fyp bru
2026-06-26 16:47:01
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princessauracyti
🖤 :
he don’t gaf
2026-07-05 17:59:07
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kalahbabyyyy
kalahbabyyyy :
ahh yes lets continue in the middle of high conflict when we are both trying to get our points across LET ME CALM DOWN AND COLLECT ALL MY FEELINGS and come back with a clear head for good communication
2026-07-01 15:53:11
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jinxtherainbow
jinxtherainbow :
Nah. I ask for space, but I do let them know that I love them and I’ll be back when I am feeling better. This^^^^^mindset is what caused me to be mean (I have bpd) bc I was being kinda forced to try to solve an issue that was highly emotionally charged right then and there for their anxiety of uncertainty—and having the healthy coping mechanism of realizing I need to have space to calm down is what saved me from being like that. Stonewalling someone “fuck you, get away from me” and disappearing for an undisclosed amount of time? Not okay. “Please leave me alone for a little while to calm down. I’ll be back at x time to check in. I love you so much” is not abusive.
2026-07-02 07:25:05
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kryybbkiraa
kryybbkiraa :
But I need a sec so I don’t lose my shit
2026-07-02 15:59:44
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_stxrk
stxrk :
as a person who needs that closeness i also am aware my partner needs time to be able to think certain things out before we finish the conversation, which is also okay
2026-07-01 18:29:58
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ace.collingwood
ace collingwood :
It's what I do best I run
2026-06-25 17:19:47
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recesucks
recesucks :
i say all the time giving me space isn’t doing anything but leaving a nasty taste in my mouth
2026-07-01 07:31:32
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silentrevolver
Silent Revolver :
Speculation isn't helpful. Take what you are feeling and really sit with it. No distractions, no suppressing, just process and regulate this experience the beat you can. How does it make you feel? What are the boundaries that need worked on to prevent this from happening again? What can you do constructively from here on out to never be in this position again? Its not over brother, keep fighting it, keep facing it, you will get thru it. It's just a matter of time and doing the work in-between.
2026-07-03 16:45:34
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3.am.club
Vuriety :
Yea! You don’t ghost someone after dating them for over a year and a half! LOL I can’t believe this is my life
2026-06-30 14:25:34
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juicife.r_
juicife.r_ :
yo someone repost ts for me
2026-07-02 23:42:54
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bipolar.express03
bipolar.express03 :
I walk away so I don’t cause more issues BUT I ALWAYS COME BACK TO FIX THE PROBLEM
2026-07-01 06:17:32
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7890777abc
🌸🌸🌸 :
There’s a difference making clear just a lil space so yall can be better for each other and showing up every time instead of running away and abandoning, just a misunderstanding accidentally
2026-06-28 20:12:47
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mdz.natalie
natalie ᥫ᭡ :
can’t repost, just know i was here
2026-06-29 21:18:10
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z03archives
Lysius :
This is a selfish perspective depending on how the conflict went. Look up the 4 horseman of a relationship! Changed my perspective of how I handled conflict completely
2026-07-01 07:37:26
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ssaouse
𝚜𝚜𝚊𝚘𝚞𝚜𝚎 :
Yup she tells me she wants me to conversate better and is just dry after but is active on social media and when i check in to see if everything is okay its “im fine”
2026-06-30 04:40:46
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luvely.roi
Ellie :
Leaving him was my best decision
2026-06-26 08:52:56
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elvira.hajdarevic
Elvira Hajdarevic :
It’s called space
2026-07-01 15:43:32
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lorgliizzy
L o r e l e i :
i know some people need there space to gather their emotions it’s just about how they are doing , i understand that everyone is different and deals with things differently but with miscommunication things come off wrong or your left feeling completely alone . everyone underestimates communication some need more than others it’s just about learning each other and wanting things to be positive, you don’t want to hurt someone but you always want to respect yourself and everyone else which can be tricky at times but it really takes the conversation to understand
2026-07-04 17:03:50
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norcalchallenger
norcalchallenger :
Wrong fyp
2026-07-01 21:49:43
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dontburnmycorpse
⋆.☪︎˚。Jæ・゚✯ ⋆ :
and then I became the problem for getting sm relationship anxiety overtime
2026-07-02 05:18:09
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red.day36
red day :
I've learned idm if I made a mistake or not ,people will do what they want and tell u what they want.
2026-06-28 20:38:22
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