@sandramaurer: This was so long I could only address half of her video. #nocontact #parenting #estranged #therapy

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jess_hulbert
Jess Hulbert :
Also she doesn’t mention how their children being smarter is a massive fear from them. I can’t remember a time my mom wasn’t telling me I’d never be as smart as her.
2026-06-24 21:45:39
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magsc8111
MagsC8111 :
My God, my goal as a parent is that my child is better than me at EVERYTHING.
2026-06-25 19:19:13
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bigandtallwomensedition
BigandTallWomensEdition :
The parents who’ve been cut off always tell us why on this app
2026-07-15 17:42:48
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ehrenvernacular
ehrenvernacular :
Imagine trying to insult someone for being more empathetic and thoughtful.
2026-06-25 03:43:31
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splodeycat
splodeycat :
I am smarter than both my parents in many ways, they are so proud of me for it
2026-06-24 23:58:33
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r548303
r :
my mom would LOVE her.
2026-06-25 00:21:08
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bookishg11
Rose Gold Farmer :
example of moral ascendancy - Dolly Parton!
2026-06-25 12:21:03
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phelixwa
PhelixWa :
A couple of years into university, I got into an argument with my mother. I stayed calm and made her explain her position using logic beyond "I'm right because I'm your mother" and she couldn't. she couldn't answer "why?" And then she said something that has stuck with me. "you went to school and learned how to argue. I can't win anymore. I'm right, but you are twisting it so I can't win anymore."
2026-07-17 15:08:15
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chigirl_312
chigirl312 :
My daughter shares her knowledge and I share my experience. As adults it’s a give and take.
2026-06-25 12:35:11
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jasonbyrne68
Grand Pappy J :
I thought our job was to want better for our kiddos 🤔 I want my kids to be smarter, better, etc, than me...but that's just me.
2026-06-24 22:04:42
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misst2201
Misst2201 :
My kids are so much smarter than me. And I loooovvvee it.
2026-06-25 23:46:37
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starblossomcosmos
Nebulablossom 🏳️‍🌈 :
my mother loved to tell me how much smarter I was and then turn around and accuse me of thinking she was stupid
2026-06-25 14:00:23
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josephlafountaine
Joseph LaFountaine :
It always comes back to lack of control
2026-06-25 20:46:16
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oaklandjason
Jason in Oakland :
I'm much smarter than my parents. They refuse to learn anything from me.
2026-06-25 09:00:27
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radicallymegan
Megan :
I am more educated and socially aware than my parents. I tell my kids who are very young "I am smarter, faster, and stronger than you.. FOR NOW." I want them to be smarter than me. Isn't that the whole point of parenting?
2026-06-25 20:58:28
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sidijo5
Sidijo :
Wait.. So the gen who told us college or else, are now upset that we got educated?
2026-07-17 12:06:33
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literally_cassandra
Literally_Cassandra :
That’s a big word for elmo
2026-06-25 06:50:15
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gp32566
GP :
sounds like maga parents getting called out
2026-07-15 21:23:14
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thatonedamnginger
VALoanLady :
Thanks for the session, same time tomorrow? 😅
2026-06-25 21:44:48
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user4437179293778
cas :
I mean, we want our kids to be better than us —who wouldn’t? I love learning things from my adult children. It’s okay if we don’t agree with everything they think and believe and vice versa, but some of my favorite times with them are our deep philosophical decisions.
2026-06-26 18:10:54
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onlycarrington
Carrington| Most hated Gemini :
I have moral ascendancy and people hate it
2026-06-25 13:50:00
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idontwantausernameugh1
kbhubb :
I’m smarter than my parents, they wanted me to be and are proud of it. But it definitely makes my dad uncomfortable when it’s obvious I know more than him
2026-06-25 13:07:00
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chaoticgood_ish
Chaotic Good-ish :
Back when I was trying to have a heart to heart with my mom I could visibly see her struggle to keep control when we were talking about how she thinks her parents did a shitty job and I mentioned that we should all strive to do better than our own parents. I was being honest but I can tell how she took it, but if my kids decide to become parents I hope they are 100% better than me! Also I do think I am morally, intellectually, and emotionally superior 🤷🏻‍♀️but that’s not why we don’t have a relationship
2026-06-25 18:17:26
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raineymichaelv
Michael Rainey :
*sigh* I miss the good ol’ days when parents wanted their kids to be better off then they were. When having a child who was the first in the family to go to college was a point of pride. There’s a reason I love talking to my dad an haven’t spoken to my mother in years
2026-06-24 23:40:21
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voicenoonehears
Be Like Dolly! :
I realize more and more that I had truly amazing parents.
2026-06-25 07:32:00
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