@kaylasamone_: Maybe this comes from being the person who always had to figure things out on my own. I don’t expect people to have all the answers. I definitely don’t. But I do admire people who are willing to try, make a decision, learn from it, and keep moving. There is a difference between needing help and refusing to take initiative. #selfleadership #ambitiouswomen #mindsetshift #figureitout Curious if anyone else feels this way.
It’s the trying! I’m okay if you try and don’t know I will help you but if you don’t try 🤷🏾♀️
2026-07-03 21:00:42
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It’ssss Brittany :
No because did you even trrrryyyy before asking me???
2026-06-25 00:36:54
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kelpee83 :
Resourcefulness is the most valuable life skill and I’ll die on that hill
2026-06-25 02:12:41
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keya.laryn :
Me as a first daughter, please leave me alone I’m out of answers.
2026-06-25 13:11:59
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Tonisha Cooks :
Mind you it be simple shit !
2026-06-26 09:06:16
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moneytana1 :
They call me condescending
2026-06-25 06:33:25
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Bunny :
I had to start asking people "what would you do if I wasn't here to help" and the answer is almost always "id try to figure it out."......like.....how about we START there and THEN ask for help?
2026-06-25 01:30:05
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Jbowem :
“Nobody taught me that..” me neither. I just took the time to figure it out.
2026-06-26 23:25:20
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Annie Marie :
I frustrates me when people don’t look things up. Like don’t you want know? You have a computer in your hands
2026-06-25 11:42:48
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Courtney Newsome :
no literally this. my managers are always like you don't ask questions you don't ask for help and I'm like why would I do that when I can just figure it out 🤣
2026-06-25 13:38:11
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Jimi Cruz :
i can't stand helplessness. it's okay to not know things but you're not allowed to not know things and just accept that. you're going to make mistakes but you'll learn from it. grow up and TRY
2026-06-26 03:03:48
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Jenny :
and I feel like it's always the simplest shit too. Like... Come on. There's nothing wrong with asking for advice/help from others on complex things especially if they are knowledgeable, but I'm not going to tell you what order to put things on a sandwich (a real conversation I had once) because you "don't know what works best."
2026-06-28 03:54:13
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Von Voyaj :
ME TOOOO
2026-07-03 23:16:01
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SlickAl Ronn :
The lack of initiative and effort kills me!
2026-07-03 17:42:12
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Breah G. :
Felt this!
2026-07-04 00:29:08
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M E :
And when I was a chronic helper.... People took me for eddiat... I don't do it anymore
2026-07-03 21:24:16
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Queen Christine :
Einstein once said “it’s not that I’m smarter than everyone else. I just stick with problems longer.” That’s me.
2026-06-25 06:15:53
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kimallyanne :
What I hate the most is when people notice you figure things out then they decide to stop using their brain and put the responsibility on you to figure out THEIR stuff.
2026-06-26 14:06:33
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hashira.nani :
Youngest daughter here. My mom always said "I never had to worry about you. I knew you'd be okay" 🫠
2026-06-28 00:08:25
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Jennia Taylor :
Oh it sets a level of rage in me
2026-06-26 18:50:55
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T 🏎️³ :
Asking for help is never wrong, but asking for help without even TRYING first is
2026-06-26 16:03:15
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glutenfree.cocaina :
As someone who’s always had to figure things out by themselves, I genuinely don’t want other people to struggle as hard as I did, so I will always help. Just don’t take that energy for granted.
2026-06-26 16:38:23
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_gladiatorin :
My biggest ick is being asked something that can easily be Googled.
2026-06-27 16:53:19
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