josie bokhoven
Region: US
Thursday 25 June 2026 02:06:50 GMT
5683007
73195
624
94147
Music
Download
Comments
BananaRaincoat🇨🇦 :
I only nannied for one family and on my 40th all 3 boys who were now in their 20s showed up to my birthday party in matching bowties and my heart exploded.
2026-06-26 02:08:52
8046
Melissa :
I interviewed with a family that did free range parenting. I couldn’t run fast enough! They wanted no schedule no rules and let the 4 month old lead. Excuse me?
2026-06-25 21:50:37
553
Reservoir Agency :
Families who let their nanny nap while the kids nap >
2026-06-25 05:36:38
2045
Mackenzie | wife & mama x 2🤍 :
Our nanny is pregnant so I always tell her to nap while the baby naps lol
2026-06-25 12:43:49
4188
0hShh 🧡⚜️ :
I’m easy going in the “idc what yall do, make slime, go to the park, paint on the windows, your job is to have fun with my tiny humans, not clean up after the adults, if you had a busy day and their room is trashed, so be it, I can clean it when I get home, just make them giggle and smile and send me pictures of your fun moments together 🥹”
2026-06-25 18:22:00
1940
ava.pierre5 :
You guys get pto. Health benefits and retirement???? 😞💔
2026-08-04 22:57:09
1
Everyday With Meg :
The hardest thing I have with hiring a nanny is them not doing anything while babies nap. I am still paying them to be here, so I think they should stay busy. Granted, I do want them to take a couple short breaks, but they should generally stay busy. I have the hardest time communicating this! I don’t expect a lot, but when I come upstairs from working and they’re sitting on their phone every time, I get a little irritated.
2026-07-14 18:21:24
5
SillyGoose_ :
The best family I ever worked for had a full time chef and housekeeper and also a personal assistant to help the parents with all their errands and odd tasks. I TRULY was there for child development and rearing and it was such a wonderful job.
2026-06-26 22:10:12
787
Allie :
I stopped nannying after the last family. They told their 5 & 7 year old that I work for them and therefore have to do what they say. They were also late and/or short on every payment.
2026-06-25 21:11:26
490
Kasey Nay :
I totally get most of this and I will say it is normal to expect the Nanny or Babysitter kids are napping to pick up the house. Do the dishes and help with laundry instead of sit on their phone. My family phase are really high rate for a babysitter so I taken care of, but I do expect because of that. Fury stepped up other ways. There is not childcare to do, however, childcare always takes priority. If the kids have a hard day or they don’t nap or it’s just super busy and they don’t go down for bed. Do not expect the house to be done.
2026-06-26 00:38:59
7
Fbizzlle :
Biggest red flag is when the dad and mom have different expectations and aren’t on the same page.
2026-06-26 11:47:52
324
Beth LaVoie :
Ugh yes the naptime expectation is wild…I always told our nanny, if I wouldn’t do it then why do I expect you too! I had a solid rule that naptime is rest time. Eat your lunch, watch tv, take your own nap…I will never understand why families think it’s okay to overwork the people caring for their kids…
2026-06-28 21:25:45
48
inthenameofseasalt :
I agree with all of this. As a mom, I want my baby’s nanny to have a moment to breathe and reset because then she is better around my child. I know I need one, so why can’t she have one?
2026-06-25 15:45:31
386
greenandpleasantplace :
I only Nannied for a very short time when I was young, for a little boy, he is now a fully grown man, married with a kid of his own, he still keeps in touch and has his Pokémon pictures we drew together (blastoise), I adore him and still feel a sense of care towards him
2026-06-27 13:18:50
15
Bri Gawkoski :
I interviewed with a family once that asked me not to wear perfume. Which would have been fine if there was an allergy reason, but there wasn’t. I could just tell it was going to be a very controlling environment
2026-06-27 01:37:46
9
Meh just me :
I’m too poor to have an opinion. 🤣
2026-06-26 02:04:38
41
ljane22 :
I was a nanny for 30yrs.....sooooo many stories I could tell!! 1 bit of advice that I would give to nannies today is......Join a Union!!!
2026-06-26 20:44:35
29
sara 🪻 :
posting the kid you nanny for online is def a red flag......
2026-07-19 04:45:53
11
Victorian Village :
Nap time is lunch time for me. I need to eat without tiny hands in my food.
2026-06-25 23:22:09
75
Fancy Nancy :
I nannied for the same family for seven years. When I started, they were newborn and two years old. Two girls. I absolutely napped when they nap. And I watched TV. We were a family, and I was blessed with the best parents ever. They recognized and loved my role in their children’s life. It’s been 20 years and we’re still in contact. We love each other so much. They were in my wedding
2026-06-26 05:06:15
72
chotu.zk :
Red flag for me is when a nanny puts our home life and kids on TikTok !
2026-06-30 05:06:29
29
bdeekeen :
We have a babysitter who comes only twice a week sometimes 3. We pay her even when we don’t need her or we cancel. Along with if we go on vacation, I still pay her. She does stuff around my house to make my life easier. Never expected but so appreciated. And my kids love her. I can’t understand how families who have a great nanny or babysitter can treat them so poorly. Blows my mind. And one who suffers the most is the child.
2026-06-26 13:15:38
67
Orianna Aldridge :
The last family I nannied for, I nannied so hard the youngest is my godson and he and his twin walked my mom down the aisle at my wedding. I just drove 12 hours round trip to the oldest’s college graduation, and I’ve been the main/head cook at their (and now my) family’s Thanksgiving (that their grandparents host) for almost 10 years. We also did a special extra parent dance at my wedding with the grandparents, who have become like my parents. 🥰
2026-06-27 02:24:03
50
Alexandra Tealeaf :
As a trained nanny, when would you get the nursery duties done? Like yea take a break, but that’s also your job? Idk. Maybe I’m old fashioned 😅
2026-07-01 17:57:09
5
Jenna Matthews :
When my end time casually extends an extra 15, 20, 30 minutes without compensation.
2026-06-25 23:58:34
175
To see more videos from user @josbokhoven, please go to the Tikwm
homepage.
