@xry.ghst: Dont get me wrong here. Prepare first, To become emotionally mature. Financially responsible. And, Mentally stable. To build a foundation strong enough for the future you want to share with someone. Sometimes, the deepest form of love is being able to say: "I love you enough to prepare for the future before asking you to carry it with me." Kaya nga dapat pinagdadasal talaga natin na iprepare at iready tayo ni Lord muna, bago niya ibigay yung tamang tao para sa atin. Paano pa ako magmamahal kung hindi pa ako kompleto sa sarili ko? Kung marami pa akong pangarap na gustong abutin. Marami pa akong sugat na gustong hilumin. At Marami pa akong bagay na gustong ayusin sa buhay ko. #selfreminder #reality #lifelessons #blowthisup #fyp
that’s why expensive in tagalog is called mahal, because love was never meant to feel cheap.
2026-06-26 00:15:24
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xry ghost | reality thoughts :
**Pero habang tumatanda ako, mas naiintindihan ko na hindi lahat ng tao ay nasa tamang panahon para pumasok sa isang relasyon. Because sometimes, you're not avoiding love. You're building yourself. You're trying to create a life you won't have to escape from. At mahirap talaga kapag wala kang pera. O may pera ka nga pero kulang pa sayo, magdadagdag ka pa ba ng isa? I don't want to make someone responsible for happiness that I should be learning to create for myself. And, I don't want to enter a relationship hoping they will complete me or save me. I'm at this point, The willingness to build something that can survive (alone) long after the kilig fades. Love that can pay the bill, the food on the table, and the stable future.
2026-06-25 05:46:17
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_r.grasya :
Be financially stable before anything else. Hindi pwedeng basta mahal lang, dahil at the end kayo lang mahihirapan kung puro puso lang ipapairal.
2026-06-26 02:41:17
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Go for it, Beansoy! :
Sa bandang huli, pagkain pa rin ang hahanapin ng sikmura ko, hindi bulaklak at mga paru-paro
2026-06-26 20:32:20
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. :
sa wakas may nakagets na rin sakin huhu .
2026-06-25 07:14:46
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Gra3me_ :
Valid yung point mo ate, pero sana ma-experience mo rin yung pagmamahal na kayang mag build ng pangarap nang may katuwang. Iba yung lakas ng loob na naibibigay ng taong naniniwala sayo. Napaka sarap mangarap. As a nag mamahal, naniniwala ako na love will keep us alive at motivated.
2026-06-25 20:09:40
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paulo_notcoelho :
And this goes to both genders diba?
2026-06-29 07:02:40
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Secret :
Kaya madalas sabihin ng mga magulang yung mga katagang “magtrabaho ka muna bago magsyota”
2026-06-27 10:36:55
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z... :
ganitong mindset talaga gustong gusto ko ehh.
2026-06-25 13:56:50
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jpMontolo :
Mas mabuting sarili muna bago ang mag ( Mahal ) yan ang perspective ko, kasi sa sahod ko dumadaan lang sa palad ko maski luho ko hindi ko pa mabili, nakakabili naman pero pa isa isa pano pa kaya yung pang date nakaka- guilty lang. Mas importante yung makapag provide ako sa pang araw araw namin sa bahay. ayosin ko muna sarili kong buhay para sa tamang ( PAG MAMAHAL ).
2026-06-26 14:58:33
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cess :
Hard agree. Once you enter a relationship, being mentally, emotionally, and physically prepared isn't enough, you should also strive to be financially stable. Especially in this economy, love alone isn't always enough. A healthy relationship needs both love and responsibility. Financial stability doesn't mean being rich, it means being able to provide for yourself, contribute to the relationship, and face life's challenges together without unnecessary hardship.
2026-06-26 09:57:39
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Nicole Pedro :
Thank you for using our song! 🥰
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2026-07-07 05:42:58
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aeko :
hindi na nga sapat sahod hindi pa tapat
2026-06-26 02:23:39
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aly :
This reminded me of someone. I would’ve stayed despite our differences, but he saw love through the weight of responsibilities, pressure, and the fear of not being enough.
2026-06-26 03:18:43
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Kenzooo :
"Ayaw kong magpamahal nang gipit, kasi ayaw kitang tipirin"
"that's why expensive in tagalog is called mahal, because love was never meant to feel cheap."
2026-06-26 13:58:26
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pistachio :
as a grade 11 student na may part time job na masasabi ko talagang hindi biro ang mag mahal. oo, may kalayaan namang mag mahal pero hindi muna afford sa ngayon. mas kailangan kong unahin ang pag aaral ko at mga pangangailangan ko/ namin. ayoko na sa magulang siya niya aasa ng pang date namin para lang mapasaya ako. mahirap kumita ng pera ngayon, hindi ganon kadali ang buhay.
2026-07-13 13:49:46
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cold brew :
Hindi mag mamahal hanggat nasa ganitong sitwasyon
2026-06-27 20:28:20
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M :
this! i want to love someone kapag alam kong parehas kaming hindi magugutom! dahil hindi na tayo mabubusog ng ‘iloveyou’ i want to be financially, emotionally, and mentally ready for someone para alam kong pwede at wala na sasagabal sa pag mamahal na matagal ko nang inaasam
2026-06-28 02:09:52
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Jaaaaa!!!! :
sa fyp nya po wag sakin para maintidhan nya kung ano point k at bat ako ganto!!!
2026-06-26 23:25:20
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uh :
just know guys I'm here haha katakot i-repos talaga
2026-06-25 22:11:39
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russelle :
don't have anyone to share this. Parant lang mga bes. nahihirapan ako sa situation namin ng bf ko. we're both building for our future. LDR kami and ung work nya kapos talaga ung sinasahod nya like pambayad utang and for family lang. minsan nga nalilimutan na nya ung sarili nya so minsan ako nagbibigay sa kanya like damit foods or what basta nireregaluhan ko sya. di alam ng parents ko yun kasi baka ano isipin nila sa kanya like kababaeng tao bat gagastusan ang lalake. ung conversation namin laging meron about sa kung gaano na sya kapursigido na makaalis ng bansa or about sa pera. Dama ko naman na for our future ung reason kung bakit kayod kalabaw sya. pero minsan ayun naapektuhan ung relationship namin nawawala ung quality time na limited na nga dahil LDR tapos dahil sa demanding na work nya mas lalong nababawasan. Di nya din ako mabigyan ng kahit ano kasi alam ko naman na kapos sya. nahihirapan ako minsan sa situation namin at the same time naawa na ako sa situation nya.
2026-06-27 16:34:19
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𝕃𝕖𝕥𝕥𝕖𝕣𝕤𝕥𝕠;Elaria 🧿🌠 :
totoo naman kasi 🥴🤦♂️
2026-06-25 16:00:41
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Mr. L :
Reality
2026-08-27 15:44:45
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JL :
I hope my Greatest love will understand me why i choose to leave just to make sure I'll be back much better, But sadly we have our own path I'm still support you no matter what and I'm Always clap for you.
2026-08-08 12:38:10
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rnnzzee :
hirap mag mahal promise pag d ka financially stable
2026-06-28 05:43:23
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