“Sarcasm only works when there’s a tell. If I don’t know you, I don’t know your baseline so I can’t determine if there is a tell in what you’re saying so it’s not going to land” is a go to for me
2026-06-27 04:59:29
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OctoberDevil :
I jokingly say "just call me Amelia Bedelia" 😂 surprisingly a lot of people have no idea about her
2026-06-25 11:55:39
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Destin.marie :
just please don't ever apologize! always come from a place of gratitude "thank you for being patient with me I know I don't always pick up sarcasm immediately" ❤️never sorry
2026-06-25 13:11:16
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kitty_and_gene_gene :
This is good I will try to use it. I was micro bullied last night with some new people and didn’t know how to counter. I appreciate this.
2026-06-25 16:18:24
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FizzGig :
I've decided(as a late diagnosed autistic 36yr old female going through perimenopause), that if i get bullied in the future i will just loudly say, "WHY DO YOU THINK IT'S OKAY TO BULLY AN AUTISTIC PERSON?!" 😏 I feel like that could immediately stop most issues in the future if I'm around more than one person 😅
2026-06-25 14:56:51
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Ms.Mayhem :
Thank you for sharing this 💖 I struggle with this
2026-06-28 04:45:30
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Jay 🍋🫐 :
I guess this is something we all suffer from 🥹 it’s so nice growing up and having the internet to show me I’m not alone. People have made me feel like something is inherently wrong with me my whole life
2026-06-25 12:47:29
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zoolilba 🍉 🌻🌈 :
I'm training a new guy at work and im not very good at training. I acknowledge that I might come off as demanding or I might forget a step and it made such a difference
2026-06-26 12:25:59
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farfarfarfar :
this is real cus people genuinely are just trying to see what they can get away with, but i can never do it again . like i will acknowledge that you just tried to say something over my head but i only realized it this time bc i was so focused on catching it lmaoo
2026-06-26 19:48:18
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👻 :
It’s not better when you understand immediately; rule of thumb is: yes, you can acknowledge but it’s more chaotic and selfish when you don’t (but that’s me lol). If whatever they said is true? So what. You’re the topic of their discussion. *boop* If it’s not? They’re insecure and it’s feels good when [you] prove them wrong when [you] realize WHAT they were teasing [you] about. Hope it helps ♥️♥️
2026-06-25 21:11:51
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Kitten Season.TV :
Me too! I love people like you! It’s so honest! I have an inner mean girl so I love the way you are and am working towards this!❤️
2026-06-25 15:41:29
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Joshdifferent :
Hella relateable! 💯
2026-06-26 08:00:00
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🎲 🍒 :
Oh you’re better than me 😂
2026-06-25 19:41:31
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LeeAnn Hayden :
This is me lmbo
2026-06-25 16:27:23
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anameforme :
I grey rock them.
2026-06-25 20:50:52
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violetbrigittex :
For me.. I’ve been realizing I can say anything I want, and I don’t have to think “what am I *supposed* to say here?” I never know. So it’s best to say my truth. Instead of trying to follow a script.
2026-06-26 01:09:21
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Kandi :
Sometimes I miss being social, but this discussion reminds me of some of the difficulties when being around neurotypical people.
2026-06-25 15:30:44
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Ry_ry :
What’s happened to me is that I ignore it and then the person escalated continuously over time in order to try to get a reaction, which they never got until things heated up to the point where the bullying and aggression was SO uncalled for and obvious that other members of the group had to take notice and eventually take action. The action would be that either I or the other person would have to go, depending on who was deemed more disruptive to the group and unlikeable. I’m generally very likeable so I’m told but my looks, standards and refusal to play games has gotten me booted off the island before. Has happpened several times to me before, as long as there’s someone willing to escalate the others are happy to let them do the dirty work for them if they dislike me
2026-06-25 17:33:00
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user1858439813335 :
I worry that this tactic will put me at a disadvantage as in I would be opening up about something personal. Even tho that thing is noticeable
2026-06-26 04:47:57
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Shonna F :
Good idea
2026-06-26 15:02:48
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Damion Brooks :
I made neurotypical behavior my spell interest. When ppl are sarcastic, I often respond as if I didn't understand the sarcasm. Then when they tell me it was sarcasm, I respond with "I know. I just don't care/gaf". If it's my kids, I'll drop the "I don't care/gaf".
2026-06-28 01:57:39
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RØME :
I kind of keep to self mostly, but when i do talk, I’ve grown to tell ppl “plz tell me to stop talking or like walk away if I’m not catching that you’re done with the interaction most ppl are too kind socially to speak up”. They then become disarmed cuz they don’t expect someone to say that and then feel it’s rude to stop me but i have to tell them i mean it when i say it and won’t take it personally.
2026-06-26 16:56:29
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macroboy :
this whole neurodivergent thing.....every person is neuro divergent ..
2026-06-25 15:36:38
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Troubz_UK :
Americans struggle with sarcasm in general, a lot don’t get the British sense of humour, we are very sarcastic.
2026-06-25 11:45:37
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