@masingafoya: One of the strongest signs of growth is realizing you no longer need revenge to feel healed. you no longer replay old conversations trying to win arguments that already ended in silence. You stop chasing closure from people who were never capable of giving it. Instead, you learn to give it to yourself. Growth is when you can think about what they did, and still choose peace over payback. Not because it didn’t hurt, but because you’re no longer governed by the wound. You begin to understand that revenge keeps you emotionally tied to the very thing you’re trying to escape. And one day you notice something powerful: they don’t occupy your mind like they used to. Not because they changed, but because you did. That’s healing. #pastormasinga #christiantiktok #wordofgod