@haileypaigemagee: Are you a: 1️⃣ Volunteer or Invite-only? 2️⃣ Asker or Guesser? 3️⃣ Builder or a Maintainer? Share this with your friends and learn their styles! ALL of these communication types have pros and cons; none is intrinsically better than any other. Problems arise when we expect that other people communicate the way we do⁠— and develop resentments based on how we’re interpreting the meaning behind their communication. Share this with your friends to open a conversation about your different styles. If you have a strong preference for one style over the other, *tell the people close to you* so they can know what you need and meet you there! 👉 Watch Boundaries 101 for the Recovering People-Pleaser (at the 🔗 in b i o) for step-by-step guidance on communicating your needs and preferences in your relationships. #MentalHealth #communication #boundaries #friendship #psychology

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feeluck22
feeluck :
i'm an asker while asking, but a guesser while being asked
2026-06-26 16:18:44
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Elio★ :
I’ve heard these before, but about the second one, esp as a neurodivergent person, I refuse to make my question dependent on what I’d assume the other person to say. It’s not my business and on top of that, I could just totally interpret the situation wrong. Maybe the other person would love to let me sleep on their couch, but I’ve never asked, only cause I thought they’d say no. Also, it’s giving people pleasing. It’s like assuming the other person isn’t able or comfortable enough in our relationship to say no or set boundaries.
2026-06-26 12:05:31
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TenaciousC :
I LOVE volunteers and askers. I like both builders and maintainers
2026-06-26 12:45:35
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ImCarrots :
this was very enlightening, very well said, thanks a lot !!
2026-06-25 19:40:25
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cathlupo :
Yeah. I'm definitely a volunteer and recovering adder. I used to see me volunteering information as a way to invite the other person to also feel they can volunteer information. That doesn't always work 😅 I'm definitely a guesser, but wish more people would ask for things as I like to help where I can.
2026-06-26 14:15:33
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