Sexy is a feeling, it’s never about the way you look. Once you understand that, it changes the way you perceive your body.
2026-06-25 19:43:17
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i think the term glow up should go away tbh. and terms like that
2026-06-25 19:45:06
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4B Forever :
You look beautiful in that photo btw. Your face is literally glowing with happiness
2026-06-25 20:46:03
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cassie!! ❤︎₊ ⊹ :
wait crying at you in elementary school. you were SO precious it makes me sick that we're trained to start feeling so poorly about ourselves at such a young age.
2026-06-25 20:58:41
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chickenpotpielover69 :
This is content I originally found you on the internet for!! ❤️❤️❤️This essay is ingrained in my mind
2026-06-25 19:25:40
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Versace girl🐆 :
it will.
2026-06-25 22:26:38
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Ratz 🐀 :
This is a refreshing perspective
2026-06-25 23:03:09
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F :
You looked so cute and happy too the fist foto 🥰
2026-06-25 19:47:09
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la :
I gained about 20 pounds in the last year, and honestly I think it's made me feel hotter in most ways, but the whole having access to your wardrobe thing you mentioned is so hard for me and is the only thing making me want to lose at least 10. I've spent so many years collecting beautiful vintage pieces and my perfect wardrobe, thrifting really good quality stuff for cheap with so much time and effort spent finding them, and it makes me so sad that I can't wear my favorite things anymore
2026-06-25 20:04:15
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jess 💫 :
it feels like a prison sentence
2026-06-26 03:17:53
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strawbcoconutmatcha :
it’s all so exhausting
2026-07-17 16:47:13
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summr333 :
Can you talk more about how you managed trying to lose weight while trying to avoid falling into the same patterns and negative coping mechanisms that you struggled with in the past
2026-06-25 20:11:51
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E :
The thing is I can’t believe you unless I go through it first but I get what you mean
2026-06-25 20:45:34
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chris. :
THIS. i always feel this when people talk negatively even about their younger selves :(
2026-06-26 15:00:34
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1derlust :
its like im just living to distract myself from food and pass the time
2026-06-25 19:04:49
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pockets full of sunshine :
ive lost about 30 points and i am happier in the sense that i am caring for myself, but my relationships havent suddenly improved, let alone my life!! i think what a lot of people are seeking the love you feel for yourself when you care for your body and dont villanize it, but that can be done without losing weight
2026-06-25 19:05:23
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chickenpotpielover69 :
“Becoming ugly is about no longer being engaged in the pursuit. It’s realizing you have a better use of your time than neurotically obsessing over your looks. With your time rightfully restored back to you, you can do whatever you’d like, even nothing at all. It’s finally your call.” 🎤
2026-06-25 19:25:51
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everythingisokiedokie :
I started focusing less on being "hot" and more on what my body can do for me and what it needs to do. I work out and try to stay healthy so I can chase my child around, hike, travel, paddleboard and enjoy to the world I'm in. It give me a new appreciation for my body and all the things I can do.
2026-06-25 20:17:14
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🖤Sil💜 :
I’d give anything to be beautiful but why does beauty have to matter so much in this world! I gained so much weight due to medication.
2026-06-25 20:08:48
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tutu.doll :
This is how I feel right now, its such a harsh relationship to have with yourself!! Especially with family commenting on your body it’s hard to break free from that mindset.
2026-06-25 20:16:56
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cat :
yes I relate to all of this !!! plus as I grow older I’ve come to approach the seasons and changes of my body with curiosity / neutrality if not gratitude. i’m privileged to experience each year in this one and only body ! its one way of witnessing my life unfold in physical terms, and I love exploring each chapter
2026-06-26 02:03:57
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River <33 :
i love ur mindset tysm for sharing
2026-06-25 19:27:02
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aisha :
depends tbh... i think most glow ups here on tiktoks focus too much on the physical part and ignore actual self growth
2026-07-23 13:39:38
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