@thepottymouthguru: One of the hardest truths to accept is that you can spend years trying to become more lovable without ever giving someone the opportunity to love the real you. Not because you're being dishonest. Because your nervous system learned that authenticity was risky. So you edited yourself. You became more agreeable. More accomplished. More adaptable. More impressive. More whatever seemed to protect connection. Over time, you may receive love, admiration, appreciation, and acceptance. But a quiet question remains: "If they knew all of me, would they still stay?" Healing isn't about becoming less adaptable or less driven. It's about slowly discovering that intimacy isn't built by presenting your safest self. It's built by risking your real self. ❤️🤟🏻🌿 #UNFUCKYOURSELF #THEPOTTYMOUTHGURU #RelationalTrauma #AttachmentHealing #Relationship

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thepottymouthguru
The Pottymouth Guru :
Sometimes the greatest barrier to intimacy isn’t a lack of love. It’s two nervous systems trying to stay safe. ❤️🤟🏻🌿
2026-06-25 19:04:49
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thelongbox
Mike H :
Man I wish I could’ve been an impressive child…
2026-06-25 20:32:32
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slender.aphrodite
pags :
what if I do both 😅 (I'm also fearful avoidant so maybe that makes sense)
2026-06-25 19:24:08
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noxun_virtaoka
noxunvirtaoka :
Ouch…
2026-06-25 19:15:16
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beautiful_mess1228
Beautiful_Mess1228 :
Oof. This one is new and stings.
2026-06-26 23:59:48
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disc.brando
disc.brando :
Can this lead to either one of them feeling like the relationship is one sided
2026-06-26 06:30:50
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isekaimepls
IsekaiMePls🌎 :
thank you for posting
2026-06-26 03:13:15
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skrtskers
DZ :
What about two impressive chameleons?
2026-06-27 21:44:51
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.celestial.terrestrial
notabird :
very interesting thank you
2026-06-29 14:39:52
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.celestial.terrestrial
notabird :
why wouldnt the impressive child show their authenticity to the chameleon? wouldnt the chameleon adapt?
2026-06-29 14:42:50
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