@unfollowcheckapp: Never doing that again #toxicexboyfriend #caughtcheating #forthegirls #toxicrelationship #toxicex

Ashley_Hall9140 :

So sorry that happened to you lovely! I’ve definitely been there only I tried changing up everything so he would notice me.

Good Kitty :

Courtney🧚✨ :

Yess that and asking people what I can do to make myself look different/better

ashlyn :

Damn

Naya :

I remember that ewwww I’m glad I’m divorced

Timothy Bartholomew :

twin but dif gender and skin tone. still twin tho 🤞

A :

You know that’s triangulation, right? It’s a subtle way of getting you to compare yourself to other women online. I’ve been there. But understand this: other women are not your competition, and the moment you start comparing yourself to them, he’s already achieved what he wanted. Men who do this aren’t trying to find the “better” woman. They’re trying to create insecurity because insecurity keeps your attention on them. Patriarchy has spent centuries conditioning women to compete with one another instead of questioning the man creating the competition in the first place. When women compare themselves, some men take that attention for importance. It feeds their ego and gives them the illusion of power. Your reaction is the prize. Your attention is the validation. That’s what makes him feel powerful. END THAT . don’t give it to him. Leave. Block him if you need to. But don’t react, don’t compete, and don’t let yourself get pulled into a game designed for you to lose. Remember who you are. You’re beautiful, you’re capable and you’re enough without measuring yourself against another woman. Lock in .