Unfortunately I show up for others but because I’m deemed “the strong one”, no one shows up for me. They think I don’t need it. They think I’m unbreakable. No village during postpartum but I’m on speed dial for everyone. I stopped showing up for others and show up for myself now instead.
2026-06-26 00:23:48
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🪴🦜🐍 kel 🐢🕷🌵 :
I wish this was true. I reach out, show up, inconvenience myself, love with my whole heart, give my entire self to supporting my "people", but not a single one would come through for me.
2026-06-27 03:05:50
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•shelbs• :
My village is very small. But fierce.
2026-06-26 01:39:39
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Jeannine M. Bailey :
Yes! Show up tired. Check in even while hanging by a thread. ❤️
2026-07-03 04:22:30
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kendo :
JOSIE - you are PHENOMENAL
2026-06-29 13:15:09
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Nichole Groenveld :
You have been one of the most influential poets I’ve ever come across. You are truly doing something great for so many people! You are a gift! 🩵
2026-06-26 13:38:29
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l0andbetold :
I wish i could share this to everyone I spent my life showing up for…. And then couldn’t bother to show up when my dad died. My circle is small now, but it’s peaceful.
2026-06-25 23:06:26
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Tony Nefstead :
This is the best advice I have ever had
2026-07-10 01:52:31
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Zexxy.Bluee :
2026-07-02 18:17:40
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Just a bb :
Inconvenience is the cost of having community!
2026-06-26 03:25:08
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Kate :
The problem is, some of us are used by “friends” they say they love us because we go out of our way to help, but it isn’t returned. And when you just need a friend, they’re too busy. I’ve been called in the middle of the night to help a friend. (I’m a nurse and I get used for my medical knowledge and to check out my friends, tend to a wound, and more) But when I need a hand, they’re too busy hand isn’t there, it’s too busy, it just never comes. I’m inconvenienced, but no one is for me. I always show up.
2026-06-30 15:22:42
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BaconBandit :
I wish they would show up for me, it’s sucks when they stopped.
2026-06-26 00:30:46
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Gem🇿🇦 :
wish this was true ... it's mostly a one way street where I'm from
2026-06-27 17:48:27
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Shepard (셰퍼드) :
this is untrue..I take care of others and they don't take care of me.
2026-07-02 15:54:15
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Emily McFadden616 :
i heard a guy say convince is the opposite of love
2026-07-04 23:30:06
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Shauna NOT Shawna :
I check in on people a lot and they never check in on me. So my only true friend is my partner
2026-06-26 03:53:46
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amanda!!!! :
I always SAY THIS
2026-06-26 01:42:18
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Jules :
Josie, this spoke such volumes to me! Thank you!!!
2026-06-26 01:28:47
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Alicia💜 :
I love listening to your readings 🥹🩷 your voice is so calming
2026-06-25 23:00:30
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Randi Lee :
I am a very solid villager because I don’t have a village. I will always show up because I know what it means to have no one do that. ♥️
2026-07-09 01:57:49
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lifewithmama333 :
Thank you, you words always hit so hard and I love it ♥️♥️♥️
2026-07-02 14:17:17
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Steph :
This is perfect
2026-07-11 18:54:47
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Stacey :
I’ve missed you! ❤️
2026-07-12 07:34:16
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Zumba baby :
2026-06-26 14:18:18
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madelynohlsen :) :
You’ve always got me crying 😭
2026-06-26 05:46:30
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