@tessintheclouds: no thoughts, just instructions I’ve always felt like I’m someone who has a strong sense of self. But something shifts when I’m around other people. It’s as if mind goes blank and all I feel capable of doing is mirroring. It is instinctual, and it’s a survival mechanism, but frankly, I don’t know how to stop it. It’s still something I struggle with, but I’m finding ways to finally ease into myself. I wrote so much more about this in my first ever Substack article:) click the link in my bio to read

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katefeetie
katie :
me mentally giving myself a gold star when I come up with a question to ask during conversation ⭐️
2026-06-26 15:52:42
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pspspspspssssp :
a friend told me i “change my mind easily” and i was surprised to feel how insulted i was by that. then i remembered she wasn’t the first person to make a comment like that and it clicked that people might find me “fake” bc of my agreeable nature. my natural instinct is to find a common ground i can agree with or share with the other person, but apparently that makes me look like i have no strong values. the funny this is im highly opinionated, i just keep it to myself unless i genuinely don’t like the person.
2026-06-26 16:47:53
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krystallanni
Krystal Lanni :
it hits me randomly that I've been on autopilot for so long that I don't know what I'm doing and everything starts feeling like a simulation 💀 snapping back in is HARD
2026-06-28 20:48:52
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sonnetstudio
sonnet studio :
Someone tell us what this is called and how to fix it 💔
2026-06-26 12:30:07
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katescomfort1
Katescomfortcaregiving :
My cheeks hurt after social interactions
2026-06-26 12:53:09
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spiderhooch
Spider-Hooch :
my favorite is interrupting myself to say "No I didn't mean to say that actually"
2026-06-26 13:02:36
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alexis.doug
Lexi Dee :
I feel so seen!! And after the function I feel so depleted of energy after performing for so long, I need to get home asap to recharge
2026-06-26 01:31:10
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shreyal11feb
shreyal :
people think it's people pleasing but no my brain just forgets how to function so i have to you freestyle
2026-06-26 10:04:26
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kayleighpng
kayleighpng :
Me in a disagreement: agrees with everything
2026-06-27 11:05:13
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roamawayfromhome
Taylor & Mike: Life Abroad🇵🇹 :
It’s so exhausting tooo
2026-06-26 00:28:19
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my.simulation
figment of my imagination :
The cashier started talking to me so i malfunctioned and accidentally left my wallet 💔
2026-06-26 15:12:29
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xlozza
Lozza🦋 :
and sometimes i be thinking of something to say for too long that it gets awkward and the moment passes so we just sit in silence
2026-06-27 14:34:31
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kristenpesut
kristenpesut :
Was at a work dinner the other night and asked my coworkers what their deepest darkest secrets are
2026-06-26 12:08:54
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eylicethelovewitch
Eylice ✨ 16k followers :
the silence. omg how much I hate the silence after they say something and is tart feeling weird and not like everyone else because I can't come up with anything to say
2026-06-27 00:02:45
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meowiecakes
𝕮𝖔𝖋𝖋𝖎𝖓𝕲𝖎𝖗𝖑 :
thank you omg Im not alone. It's like something switches on in me & I cant turn it off
2026-06-26 10:24:54
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lmfayao
silly billy :
how do u stop this 💔💔
2026-06-26 05:42:45
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claoidhte
Amy :
My FIL commented that I always smile and laugh so much. That's how I try to seem friendly and normal. Apparently I fucked up 😂
2026-06-28 19:50:51
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reynamichi
Michi :
This is why I have to mentally prep before going out for an evening
2026-06-26 13:30:40
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heueiejejr
heueiejejr :
It’s exhausting. And it doesn’t end when you go home. Then your left to over analyze every interaction and questioning over and over if you acted right 😭😭
2026-06-26 16:50:25
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jessanotherday
Jessanotherday :
Was in a very important interview recently and my body was in overdrive for so long that it went completely blank half way through and I was fightinggg for my life to answer the questions lmao
2026-06-26 13:04:20
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pollypessimism13
✨🌜pollypockethobbit🌛🍄 :
Then you get to rethink all those interactions for the next week
2026-06-26 16:23:08
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megret314
mkathleen :
Literally my mind 😱
2026-06-25 23:49:17
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wynnie727
wynnie :
omg that shirt is giving 13 going on 30 in the best way I LOVE colorful fashion also I feel this video so hard
2026-06-26 00:46:56
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cynthiaruthh
Cynthia :
“No thoughts just instructions” (!!!) exactlyyyyyyy
2026-06-26 20:25:38
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tvgremlin
Angel :
Knowing you did good but going home and feeling drained and like you betrayed yourself
2026-06-26 23:14:35
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