@bigbrouncensored: Facts.. especially cause people don’t like asking for anything #blackmen #relationships #advice #caring

Erica💕 :

I disagree. I’m all for anticipating needs but it’s also important to use our words and say what we need or how we need it.

ToriG :

After mom passed I always got “if you need anything let me know” but at the moment I don’t know what I need and still don’t and it’s been a year since. And to be honest no one has shown up at my house just say “ here you might not need it but here”

Ladybug :

Message!

He wants me to Share 365 :

I think some people may be missing what he meant. I don’t think he’s saying people should never ask for help. I think he’s saying that when you truly love someone, you pay attention. You notice they’re struggling, hungry, overwhelmed, or in need—and sometimes you step in before they ever have to find the words to ask. It’s similar to how God loves us. Yes, we’re told to pray and ask, but God also knows what we need before we even speak it. That’s the kind of love he’s describing—love that’s observant, intentional, and proactive. Sometimes the greatest act of love is noticing.

Ms.KeyBeauty🦋 :

This is my love language.

Nowhere Together :

because consideration is the highest form of love. not being hyper vigilant around other people's feelings but anticipating needs is so easy when you stand in the perspective of others..

Monroe 💋 :

To be loved is to be seen 😭

Prolificc1990 :

It’s called taking initiative!! 🔥🔥

EsposaElliot :

Reminds me: if a friend is going through something. Instead of saying “ let me know if you need something “ just do something you notice they need.

Myfairoregano :

To be loved is to be seen it is to be considered

Pookië :

I knew I wasn’t trippin

ronald Bragg :

I believe in order for this to work, you have to have to learn about that person and have a heart to servitude. And you have to be intentional.

Ohhh_thatsel :

The highest form of love is consideration

Onya 🦋 :

Consideration is one of the greatest forms of love

mimi :

That’s my love language. If you see hurting why I need to tell you. You should see me and know.

Mischief Divine ᥫ᭡ :

My love language is knowing what you need before you have to ask and providing

LaLa💛E✌🏾N💛❌ :

I LIVE BY THIS…

AlesiaGreen40 :

Come on

TheBluntTruth :

CAROLINA ELITE FITNESS :

I'm not a mind reader u better tell me 😂

Victorious :

But in a lot of situations people will say they didn't ask you to do something. So I've learned not to always overextend myself.

Eboni ShardaeⓂ️✨ :

I truly believe this! And have been guilty of not standing on this!

Kim Dixon Gen ❌ :

This is a powerful statement

mayajosephine_ :

This is my love language honestly

BluGunz :

Yes, it's true you should help with what you feel that person is needing/wanting, but reinsurance will also be nice or a follow-up.. ("bro, thanks," or "hey, you definitely know me") instead of guess or hoping you got it right.