I think some people may be missing what he meant. I don’t think he’s saying people should never ask for help. I think he’s saying that when you truly love someone, you pay attention. You notice they’re struggling, hungry, overwhelmed, or in need—and sometimes you step in before they ever have to find the words to ask. It’s similar to how God loves us. Yes, we’re told to pray and ask, but God also knows what we need before we even speak it. That’s the kind of love he’s describing—love that’s observant, intentional, and proactive. Sometimes the greatest act of love is noticing.
2026-06-26 21:46:41
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Cora :
Thank you gentlemen because this created a topic that pushed me to present to my sisterhood community. We need to talk about this. This hit a nerve! 👌🏽💯👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🥰
2026-08-20 18:49:04
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Ariel Monroe 💋 :
To be loved is to be seen 😭
2026-06-26 13:31:52
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Ms.KeyBeauty🦋 :
This is my love language.
2026-06-26 04:18:20
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ToriG :
After mom passed I always got “if you need anything let me know” but at the moment I don’t know what I need and still don’t and it’s been a year since. And to be honest no one has shown up at my house just say “ here you might not need it but here”
2026-06-26 11:46:01
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Liberated Journalista :
That part!
2026-08-22 02:19:58
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EsposaElliot :
Reminds me: if a friend is going through something. Instead of saying “ let me know if you need something “ just do something you notice they need.
2026-06-26 10:35:25
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Nowhere Together :
because consideration is the highest form of love. not being hyper vigilant around other people's feelings but anticipating needs is so easy when you stand in the perspective of others..
2026-06-26 12:46:43
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Prolificc1990 :
It’s called taking initiative!! 🔥🔥
2026-06-26 07:30:09
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Victorious :
But in a lot of situations people will say they didn't ask you to do something. So I've learned not to always overextend myself.
2026-06-26 16:19:51
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CAROLINA ELITE FITNESS :
I'm not a mind reader u better tell me 😂
2026-06-26 13:00:57
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🦋 :
Consideration is one of the greatest forms of love
2026-06-26 13:20:43
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Den Den :
I disagree cause I’m not a mind reader 💯
2026-06-27 13:25:41
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χαηηє🕷️ :
Highest form of love is consideration
2026-07-19 18:29:59
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HighTaylor3 :
Grandfather was wrong😐if I want a glass of water is it to much for me to ask for it. Or do I pout bcuz someone didn’t voluntarily offer me water
2026-07-22 16:51:26
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mua_danjae3 :
As someone with high emotional intelligence. Be careful with this advice. Give if and when you can but not at the expense of yourself. I’ve been in a giving situation almost bending over backwards for love ones just for them in the end to become entitled or say “I’ve never asked you to do that.” Worst thing you can hear when you have a lot of empathy. Give mindfully
2026-08-01 23:35:30
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Armani ✨ :
I’ve literally experienced this. Someone told me exactly what would help me during a time when I was struggling, then turned around and said “ but let me know if you need anything “ instead of just doing the thing they knew would help. . . .
2026-06-27 12:03:15
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Carmen's Cornerr :
This is literally basic common courtesy. The bar is in hell
2026-07-24 00:20:05
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dtontime :
Hmm but God know what we want and still wants us to ask… but he still loves us .. I am just saying , I didn’t make the statement
2026-06-27 13:36:05
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LeiAllDay :
Unspoken expectations are premeditated resentments, just communicate.
2026-07-22 08:38:49
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LUNATHI🇿🇦 :
I used to be that person until I helped someone I knew they needed something, and they reminded me , “yes I needed the help but I never asked you
2026-06-27 18:15:31
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Head in the Clouds 🛫⛅️ :
The other person not having to ask stems from you having the emotional capacity and understanding of yourself to communicate your needs to the other person. It shouldn’t be the other person’s responsibility to understand your own needs.
2026-06-26 15:57:25
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ronald Bragg :
I believe in order for this to work, you have to have to learn about that person and have a heart to servitude. And you have to be intentional.
2026-06-26 10:27:18
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BeLoved :
Exactly what I’ve been saying I teach my children to always be mindful and do things without having to be told/asked too to do
2026-06-27 02:46:26
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coopeca :
My Mother bless her, always stated the same, she was 97 yrs blessed when she got her wings.
2026-06-27 18:59:51
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