Not As We Planned
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Friday 26 June 2026 05:43:12 GMT
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Applewahhhh :
I don’t agree with this as I’m in a happy relationship and actually I’m a better parent when he isn’t here , because it’s one less person I have to think about, he’s amazing but subconsciously there is a pressure to keep everyone happy so when he’s away with work I have a lot more time for the children x
2026-06-26 06:12:41
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CHELSEY🐢 :
It’s been 5 days for me. And even my daughter has commented on how calm I am. I feel lighter.
2026-06-26 13:02:01
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Vicky :
Oh gosh wow this hit home
2026-06-26 17:41:50
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Kate :
The dread when he came home was like walking on eggshells. 11 years single yes it’s been a struggle but a peaceful struggle 🥰
2026-06-26 06:20:52
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dclem_291 :
My kids said the house feels happier 🥺
2026-06-26 16:29:43
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Shan :
2 months as a single mum and wowwww I'm like a whole new person. Much calmer, happier and I'm slowly becoming myself again
2026-06-26 05:57:09
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rahrahrasputin :
Honestly, the mess gets to me way more now they aren't here. Stresses me out so much.
2026-06-26 08:52:41
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Rochelle Hanson555 :
💯noticing this more and more 😭
2026-06-26 09:28:07
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Cf88 :
This is absolutely not true for me and actually is the opposite tbh. This was a wake up call for me🙏
2026-06-26 11:44:39
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Sengamcginlay❤️🔥 :
👏👏👏😁5 years on my own now and happiest we have ever been
2026-06-26 05:45:55
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Sophie :
4yrs on ... im happy 😊
2026-06-26 06:32:46
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Selina Jayne Weaver-Sidwell :
100%
2026-06-26 15:01:20
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Jadie :
True
2026-06-26 08:38:28
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K.Stahly :
Holy shit 🫣
2026-06-26 17:19:45
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Kimberley Kerr :
This is so true
2026-06-26 12:23:23
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Shamina :
Mhmmmmm!!!!!!!
2026-06-26 16:20:41
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Mia :
Omggggg so true
2026-06-26 07:52:25
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Laura :
Soooo true and now living it
2026-06-26 07:20:40
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Stuart :
I completely understand why women are resonating with this video. Parenting in a tense, misaligned household is incredibly draining, and finding peace after separating is a very real relief for many. However, I also look at this from another angle. Often, the core issue isn’t that parenting is inherently 'better' alone, but rather that the parents were never aligned on their strategies, schedules, or expectations to begin with. When there’s a lack of proactive communication and an inability to see things from each other’s point of view, staying under the same roof creates a constant friction point. When a person transitions to single parenting, they suddenly have total control over the routine, rules, and environment. That 'happiness' and 'success' might actually be the relief of finally having a clear, consistent plan. As a dad, I hear a similar story from the other dads when mum is not around, just a slight tweak from another perspective.
2026-06-26 06:19:39
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J.o.d.e :
SO FRICKIN TRUE
2026-06-26 09:54:47
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Simple_life :
Misandry is everywhere these days
2026-06-26 14:10:05
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678l39 :
@Shells 🐚
2026-06-26 14:02:12
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CoffeeMom📚🎧☕️ :
💯💯💯
2026-06-26 20:48:21
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