Codependency Kate
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Friday 26 June 2026 13:43:54 GMT
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cheeseroastedfig :
I’m working through this now. It felt a lot more comfortable when I would attempt to create stories around a person’s inner world but I don’t have the right to do that and it’s also not the point. It keeps the focus on them rather than myself. I’ve noticed I’m a lot more present and engaged with myself and my boundaries and values when it’s just notice behavior I don’t like > act accordingly rather than try to figure them out.
2026-06-26 14:38:21
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Leah ✍️ Author 📚 HD Historian :
Yes and it’s okay to move away from that characterization/interpretation too! Once I felt more confident and had more distance I didn’t need that sort of label. I was able to identify the behaviors and situations outside a label which led to more healing.
2026-06-27 21:54:55
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you are right :
Thank you
2026-06-28 16:06:07
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PoopsyLife :
Realizing this about my partners family (finally…and only after going to school for clinical mental health) was a game changer for what I was believing about myself in relation to them.
2026-06-28 08:55:28
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A :
Realising some people are just jerks, not blame myself for their shitty behaviour
2026-06-27 04:41:51
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enola gay :
the way i conceptualized it for myself was that I had to go through the Kohlberg stages of moral development
2026-06-26 21:36:59
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lc.alchemy.333 :
100000% exactly how it felt. It was so liberating and the biggest weight off my shoulders
2026-06-27 21:03:21
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Calli :
This is extremely helpful ty
2026-06-26 23:23:58
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alisara :
Not really!
2026-06-28 00:20:42
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Uknowho :
So true. It took me 40 years and one video on Toxic Mom Recovery’s TT for my eyes to open…widely! At first I was so angry (how could a family be so dysfunctionally collusive?) and then withdrawal (betrayal). You have since guided and educated me on moving forward. No more enmeshment, I love and appreciate my autonomy and I use the BEND method always, in all ways 😂 Thank you 💗
2026-06-27 13:11:06
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Hilda :
It's often better to call people self-centered or egoistical, especially when we barely know them: it doesn't matter if they are only narcissistic right now or will be so forever. They aren't the right connection right now, and that's all that matters.
2026-06-26 14:46:25
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