@therealniccoy: The most addictive relationships aren’t built on consistency. They’re built on unpredictability. That’s why breadcrumbing is so hard to escape. #situationship #Relationship #breadcrumbs #traumahealing #attatchmentissues
I automatically mirror the behavior of my opposite - I'm affectionate when they are, when they withdraw I withdraw too and focus on myself, I don't chase anything anymore 🙏
2026-06-26 16:23:19
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Laurel Leaf765 :
and then comes the trauma bond.
2026-06-26 14:48:38
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Dez :
And this is why I subscribe to no contact the moment I feel my romantic relationships deviate if the person I’m dating is unable to communicate what’s going on.
2026-06-27 01:13:02
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Superclean :
I need to know how people knowingly do this to other people? it's so mean. unless they don't know they're doing it?
2026-06-26 15:05:16
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sparklypenguin0 :
Sadly I see this pattern in my marriage
2026-06-26 18:23:10
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Mamabearforeverof2❌ :
It’s unbelievable the way you put your words together, so everyone can understand so simple but so deep❤️
2026-06-26 21:51:33
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itsjazercastillon :
This is why so many intelligent people get trapped in toxic relationships. Thank you for the people like you who educate us on this app. I get to learn something new everyday.
2026-06-26 19:36:15
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Misunderstood Mama :
Ah yes the future faking
2026-06-26 14:22:21
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Sebastian_WhiteBear🪶 :
Being a people pleaser and always using performance as a way I show love I get caught up in these breadcrumbing too easy throughout. My life wasn’t until last year and watching a lot of your videos and several other coaches that I realized I had a lot of childhood trauma to heal from I’ve spent the last two months healing and sitting with feelings life is different this time around
2026-06-26 16:18:57
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dandun :
Ok! keep enligthening people! thanks a lot
2026-06-26 14:30:20
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Desiree Kennedy :
I saw it described like putting change in a jar. The first time they put $0.80 in the jar. So you feel like they put everything in. Then next time they put $0.20 in once they feel like you are withdrawing. The cycle continues only putting pennies in attention, or effort.
2026-06-27 02:58:21
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GenXButterfly🦋 :
been in this for 25 years. I don't know how to leave it.
2026-06-26 20:26:21
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Joe Manzanares :
Wish I’d learned this 50 years ago.
2026-06-26 18:22:17
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Kincső :
Im early 🤭
2026-06-26 14:10:55
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allanug5 :
U r Very analytical and realistic . it usually happens – big up 🙏🙏
2026-06-26 20:13:37
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Alicia Perrillo :
No one can survive on crumbs 😭
2026-06-26 14:17:10
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Philosophical_Bits :
Operant conditioning
2026-06-27 03:42:24
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Construction Angel :
yes. yes. yes.
2026-06-27 03:51:26
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sherylflennery :
Damn
2026-06-26 17:47:51
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nananpeppe :
You are such a badass💪 I appreciate all of the information you post. They are things I need to hear. I’m embarrassed that it is taking me this long to get where I’m at in my head.
2026-06-26 15:29:25
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Ceyli :
I love your content! 😊💜
2026-06-26 20:45:26
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🌹eyva 🌹 :
✨that's why it's very important to have self respect and leave at the first sign of disrespect ✨
2026-06-27 00:21:34
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zdrango :
You are deep❤️
2026-06-26 21:30:24
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sorrycharlie_ :
I, myself have been breadcrumbed.
2026-06-26 21:13:55
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