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Mama Goose :
It feels safer to be underestimated.
2026-06-27 18:12:08
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vwohoo :
Omg this is incredibly accurate
2026-06-26 21:49:54
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autism.get.in.tune :
Omgoshhhh. I’ve done a lot of work. But I’m truly learning and resonating with your content on fawning
2026-07-04 14:10:08
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buennyhahas :
I had a “best friend” constantly make me feel like I was lesser than with my intelligence and I fawned by using it as an excuse to be entertainment with my “stupidity”. Subconsciously adding the internal narrative that I’m not good enough.
2026-06-26 21:49:15
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MJ :
Fawning can be a form of disassociation or self abandonment
2026-06-27 20:20:12
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CHELSLAY 🐆⭐️ :
guys how do i stop. okay how do i stop it’s like permanent now i cant stop
2026-06-27 23:43:43
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tickledtomatoes :
It protects me
2026-06-27 06:07:57
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🗡️Seeking🔻Hilarity🧚🏼♀️ :
Intellectual fawning OH NO LOLOL NOT MY WHOLE PERSONALITY FOR MOST OF MY LIFE 🤣🤣 I stopped doing that recently because I got too far on to the authenticity Reclamation witch path and let me tell you. EVERYONE HATES THAT. LMFAOOO. 😅 Like I kind of thought. The only place I was masking was my romantic relationships so I stopped having them. But it's come to my attention that I may also have been shrinking around my friends because. Now that all versions of me are on full display. I get some varied reactions. 😅 going from intellectual fawning my whole life to suddenly unleashing the kraken 😂😂😂😂😂😂 I make people very uncomfortable 😂😂😂😂 But like I can't do it anymore 😅 I mean I can still employ it for a strategic purposes because it is an excellent tactical advantage in any situation to be underestimated but. Yeah. That's a thing. Lol. I've got that Taurus face that tells people I'm not up to anything and it is. Very useful. It used to bother me that people can't see me. Whatever people's first impression of me is I'm not sure, but it is never accurate. People will get very unsettled when I start swearing and they're like wow. You just don't seem like the type. I'm like what type do I seem like??? I would like to know so that I can and weaponize it when necessary 🤣🤣 Me and my Virgo Rising/Gemini Venus chameleon tendencies. But I think it's also that I am very genuine and kind so people think I am dumb. They associate the loving energy with naivety, but they do not realize that my care is ancient and bloodthirsty. Lol.
2026-06-27 19:15:56
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calysimko7.14.21 :
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2026-07-02 13:53:24
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barefoot baddddie :
i remember the first time i explicitly thought to “not shine so bright” because my empathy didn’t want other women to feel insecure at just 9 y/o 🥺
2026-06-27 04:45:33
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Ali Brotherton :
You should be so proud of yourself. what you're doing is important. Get at it, sweet girl!
2026-06-27 05:04:51
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Lucy Rodriguez :
I love your videos. I relate so much. You are incredibly intelligent and articulate
2026-06-27 04:06:38
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sun :
Girl you are very intelligent and very smart. Never have self-doubt ever again
2026-07-04 06:45:35
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Annie February :
Something that helped me, especially at work, is feeling responsible for the failure when I don’t speak up when I know something won’t be successful as proposed. Instead of taking pleasure in “knowing” I was right, I feel responsible for knowing what was right and not speaking up. If I view it from that lens, I then also had to learn to persuade instead of tell, which was a skill I thought I could never have because I never believed anyone would want to consider my point of view. Recognizing that not everyone will dismiss me immediately the way people did when I was a kid, has changed my life.
2026-06-27 14:27:06
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Shelby Shea :
you said this RIGHT in front of my husband.
2026-06-28 01:00:41
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Solid.7 :
I think i intellectually freeze. I dont ego stroke. I just dont challenge.
2026-06-28 02:54:53
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Erikaaa 🎀 :
I pretend not to know / remember small things all the time because I don't want to seem like an obnoxious know it all 😭
2026-06-28 13:18:52
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Jai Reigns :
I lay low and play slow but I'm an extreme genius 👏🥰
2026-06-27 15:32:57
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ashleyyyydunn :
To the reference of cross referencing-I will be right about something and my husband will make a point to disagree or say no that’s not right-then will look up whatever it is and lo and behold, I was right. They never give us credit.
2026-06-26 23:52:00
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linda :
When I studied I would always be scared I know nothing and will fail. Almost everytime I was one of the best, teachers pet and always surprised I did so well. I couldn’t believe my luck. Pół did not believe me I feel this way :/
2026-06-26 20:46:56
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ryanwhitaker3 :
We are the same person. I’ve always been terrified of not dumbing myself down enough. Death, taxes, and people losing their effing minds if I don’t go along with having the wool pulled over my eyes. I don’t ever remember a time where this wasn’t the case.
2026-06-26 21:54:00
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Raynegold :
I down play my intelligence as a tactic not to be manipulated or taken advantage of , it allows me to have insight on how people value me
2026-06-29 10:23:53
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Fightwhileyoustillhaverights :
And I actually appreciate being underestimated
2026-06-28 02:39:23
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Jay-Your Neurodivergent bestie :
you NAILED this. I also had a bully for a big brother. 🫶🏼🫂
2026-06-27 13:35:02
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BeWell Bean :
I am allowed and it is ok to take up space.
2026-06-28 12:40:29
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