Adam❌(my only acct)❤️
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Friday 26 June 2026 14:23:18 GMT
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Connie :
I tried to get child support. Paid an attorney filed the paperwork, but the BD found cash paid jobs so I spent $5k and never got a dime. 🤷🏻♀️
2026-08-25 23:28:04
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lstarre :
He doesn’t understand the conflict “costs” more than the woman wins in support.
2026-08-01 02:00:24
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Stephanie ❤️✝️ :
I appreciate your stand point but how am I suppose to make a grown man take care of his kids?? He don’t even follow a court order…
2026-07-23 02:57:09
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DeAnn :
this has to be rage bait.
2026-08-25 06:56:15
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Sara :
I understand your standpoint. Don’t write me off with the “lazy”. I completely support myself and my child. I’m protecting my child from what I went through. So no and I don’t care about the law. I don’t care how much work it is. I don’t take (and never have) a dime from the system. And I sure as hell don’t expect anyone to come into my life and support me or my child. I can see your point, I really can but don’t lump me with the lazy. I bust my ass and built a business to make sure our day to day and our future is secure. Skip the lazy and get a woman with her stuff together and taking care of it! I’m good and enough for the right person.
2026-07-23 21:17:54
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TN Boy Mom 💙 :
Well this is a different spin. I have a hard time dating a man who is ok with me having a really good co parenting relationship with my son’s father. They think I still wanna be with him. He married his mistress. I just put my son first.
2026-07-27 13:21:22
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Kathrine Page985 :
Lazy?? That’s absurd. It not my job to hold a grown man accountable for his responsibilities. The new guy HE is toxic because why is any of it even your business or place to tell her what she needs to do? If you aren’t paying her bills or for her kids don’t damn worry about it!
2026-08-07 21:30:08
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Nurse Kat :
I think it truly depends on the situation. In my case, it’s a safety concern (order of protection for 10 years bad) I’m blessed that my children and I are a financially comfortable too.
2026-06-26 14:52:17
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carrie :
I can't speak for others but for me sometimes it's not worth the hassle. Don't write off someone unless you know the whole story. There are some great women out there who have valid reasons for not going for support ie. abuse either physical or mental etc. and mental abuse is far more damaging than physical abuse so don't write off people until you have all facts otherwise you might miss out on a great woman.
2026-07-27 20:11:38
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kbell090211 :
Because it’s more of a hassle to deal with it honestly. Now with that be said; my first daughter’s father is in jail, so apparently he can’t pay. Plus she’s 18 years old now. My ex husband terminated his rights; but trust and believe prior to that. I fought tooth and nail to get him to pay child support
2026-08-02 02:09:59
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ADW :
I’m a single mom! I’m a widow with a 11 yr old. Oh and financially secure 😉
2026-06-26 15:07:04
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Erica Barnett :
Less stress to let it alone. New guy is not being blame for nothing else but causing the same stress the old did.. getting nothing is worth our peace.
2026-08-03 04:55:25
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heatherscott458 :
My girls are 16/13 just got court order for cs but guess who do t want to see his kids, pay for them, nothing so we can’t force him to help any and the ones that’s screwed is the kids and mom, then mom has major issues with trust also sorry
2026-07-22 20:16:23
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Just.Kandas :
I try. it goes nowhere, but I do try.
2026-08-03 16:46:47
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sherry❌ :
Well my kids are grown 🤣
2026-06-27 18:13:23
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shellyperry88 :
some women don't want to beg dead beat for nothing and just do it on their own
2026-06-28 16:25:16
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Elida87 :
my kids are 18 and 20 no baby daddy issues here but I understand the just of the aggravation
2026-06-26 18:11:07
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MelissaNK20 :
Widow here... but was negotiating a divorce and fighting for it all
2026-06-27 02:03:00
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kbarham23 :
I don’t hold anyone accountable but my child’s father. BUT. sometimes it’s not worth the fight. I know in my personal experience, it’s for the best also. The child is hurt but they will put together all the pieces when they are old enough. All we can do is love the child the best of our ability.
2026-06-26 14:42:44
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Suzanne🗝🥉 :
safety of my children was worth more than any $ I would ever get out of him. oldest is 26 and never saw a dime from her dad. I was in contempt of court, but i would rather my children be alive.
2026-07-25 07:30:19
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shellyperry88 :
right
2026-06-28 16:24:05
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Michele Vandall :
I don’t think you understand what the man put the women through that go for Child Support. He feels like if he hast to pay, he puts all of the responsibility on the mother..
2026-08-23 22:04:14
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Ashley.Nichole :
Energy is not infinite especially for single moms…and more especially for the ones who don’t have another parent helping. What energy is left after being a chauffeur, a maid, a cook, a counselor, a disciplinarian, working 2 jobs, making all the school events, teachers meetings, and doc appointments…we damn sure aren’t ganna use it to parent a grown man.
2026-08-03 20:13:17
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Becky :
This is a bad take! You have no idea what “those kind of women” have been though. I think it says more about how strong and independent she’s willing to be to do it on her own. Why would we “make” our BD see their kid(s) if they don’t want to. My BD is so toxic and our history is traumatic. I’d rather just figure it out on my own than deal with the drama that come from me holding him accountable.
2026-08-23 21:05:29
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