@_reidolson_: Even in friendships, i find it very hard to spend time with people who don't match my effort. not saying it's right or wrong, just what I prefer, and what's helped me live a better life.

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selahobx
🌊elah :
is this my sign to break up with him? 😭
2026-06-26 18:22:34
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queenie_813
Queenie :
I have a feeling this is not about food
2026-06-27 01:02:48
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v4scorpion
V4scorpion 🇺🇸 :
Replace them, don’t change them
2026-06-27 18:00:28
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bobspacedenier
Bob spacedenier :
anxious vs avoidant relationships 100%.
2026-06-27 00:09:58
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chrisyu00
Chris Yu :
“The love I give is yours to keep”. Giving with expectation is not love, and what they choose to do with it is a representation of themselves
2026-06-27 15:13:28
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joossettaja
🪫🪫🪫 :
What if the pea was all she had
2026-06-27 11:44:11
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normal_01111
Normal :
finally, a video to vent. I'm tired of being painted as the one who doesn't care when I've spent so much of this relationship trying to prove that I do (my gallery will prove it). People only notice the things I failed to do, but nobody seems to notice the things I've been doing all along. I gave updates when I could, I made time even when I was exhausted, I stayed when it would've been easier to leave, I listened, I reassured, I put effort into fixing things, I gave gifts, attention, affection, and pieces of myself that nobody ever talks about. The truth is, I wasn't asking for grand gestures or impossible standards in return. I was begging for the BARE MINIMUM. I was begging to feel chosen, appreciated, PRIORITIZED, understood, and LOVED THE SAME WAY I WAS TRYING TO LOVE. I was begging for consistency, communication, reassurance, effort, and the feeling that my presence actually mattered. Instead, it felt like no matter how much I gave, the focus was always on what was missing. Every effort I made was overshadowed by one thing I didn't do. Every sacrifice became invisible. Every attempt to show love was treated as if it wasn't enough. You start questioning yourself. You start wondering if you'll ever be enough for someone who only sees your shortcomings and never your intentions. And that's what hurts the most—not that I wasn't willing to love, but that I was constantly trying, constantly giving, constantly proving myself, while at the same time begging for the BARE MINIMUM from the person I was GIVING EVERYTHING TO. No one talks about how exhausting it is to love someone while feeling unloved yourself. No one talks about the pain of pouring your heart into someone who keeps asking for more while giving less.AND EVENTUALLY ING NAN KAG "DILI KA KA APPRECIATE" "DILI BANI ENOUGH?" I didn't want perfection. I didn't want luxury. I didn't want the world. I just wanted the same effort, the same care, the same consideration, and the same energy that I was already giving. And the saddest part is that I kept begging for things that should never have required begging in the FIRST PLACE. PS* I'm just settling for less...
2026-06-27 06:43:39
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joyously_9
joyously🍉🇨🇦 :
People-pleasing leads to resentment.
2026-06-27 18:33:20
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dalyicel
💜Dal💜 :
star‍ting to under‍stand t‍he hy‍pe aro‍und t‍he ve‍ra ha‍rt manife‍station qu‍iz. h‍er work‍book refr‍amed h‍ow i th‍ink ab‍out w‍hy so‍me st‍uff mani‍fests f‍or me a‍nd ot‍her thi‍ngs ne‍ver d‍o. Wi‍sh I d‍id it soo‍ner
2026-06-26 20:34:10
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hill_billy_hicks
Austin :
This man to have been hurt in a lot of ways to give such great metaphors. I hope Reid gets all the peace and calm in the world like he gives to us.
2026-06-26 15:19:07
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juecebigalow
The_Juece :
Well fuck
2026-06-26 22:45:34
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yuuaremywayoflife
𓆩𓇢𝒀𝒖𝒖𓂃𐙚𓆪 :
this vid was on my fyp 4 times in the last 20 scrolls what's going on
2026-06-26 15:20:01
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bluejey2
Jey Blu :
Just eat the food bro
2026-06-27 16:08:47
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lucas_ye6
lucas_ye6 :
The timing is crazy
2026-06-27 16:28:04
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espertouch
The Esper. :
Damn. I just made a poem that quite literally matches this. The timing is wicked
2026-06-26 19:10:49
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nicks_aandehand
NICK :
You know the problem here is don’t expect things, most of the time they disappoint you. Just communicate what you want to get and what makes you feel loved. If the other one loves you they will change it and do it for you because they want the best for you
2026-06-27 05:49:50
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missaddyowens
AddyOwens :
What if ti her the pea means more to her than he realizes… a pea to her is equivalent to his plate of food for her.. just looks different. But if it’s still not enough for you, time to accept, or walk away
2026-06-26 21:29:39
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andysimpson401
Andy Simpson :
If a relationship is this complicated it ain’t worth it. Be equally held to the same standards/expectations and equally graceful of each others shortcomings.
2026-06-26 19:39:57
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kibbles_boss
kibbles_boss :
it's a senzu bean
2026-06-26 18:02:29
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benedictleong495
DylanBobRoland :
Normalize adjusting your expectations to be Lower
2026-06-27 04:19:10
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