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_209s :
“normalize communication” but how do you expect me to communicate efficiently when i’m upset ? we need to normalize communicating AFTER calming down. im tired of people wanting to talk things out right away, like let me breathe! YOU made ME upset, so we can talk when IM ready.
2026-06-29 17:46:41
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👽 :
this is immature, but I understand what you are wanting to do, so saying something like "I need space, you've hurt me and I need time to think about how I should react " would actually be the healthy and right way to go, ignoring your s/o or friend may cause more drama or irritate them causing them to fail to see why you are ignoring them, normalize communication, I hope this helps in the most geniune way
2026-08-12 08:37:18
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c0ralinelover_ :
idkkk this is kinda immature, it’s better to just talk things out and get all problems settled!!
2026-06-27 03:50:11
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🪼🐸꧁☁︎︎Ｆｒｏｇｇｉｅ☁︎︎꧂🐸🪼 :
Thisss broo like I don’t wanna blow up at you I need a long long moment to calm down
2026-08-12 08:21:11
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emil(mx+b)🐞❤️🖤 :
Oof no let’s not.
2026-06-28 14:42:57
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bri🦭🩷 :
No but we can normalize communicating that you would rather not talk in the moment. Ignoring people is just immature
2026-06-30 00:21:06
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🐠✡︎☭ spennyy ☭✡︎🐟 :
normalize "hey i need some space rn lets finish this later"
2026-06-30 04:08:59
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﹒⌗﹒ 𝓅aige ⸝⸝ :
Because I literally just wanna know what I did wrong so I can correct my behavior 😭 thats rlly immature if u ask me
2026-06-28 23:56:45
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starrypeach-tea :
the silent treatment is a very toxic and manipulative way to "punish" someone. I know you probably dont mean it like that it doesnt seem like you do and im sure you're a good person but if its a loved one, it would be a great idea to let them know "I need a minute, im upset" and then ignore them after that, so that way they know you just need a bit. communication is a big deal and this is coming from someone who has gone through my friends giving me the silent treatment out of nowhere and not tell me theyre upset or that I did something wrong. walking away and expressing that you need a bit of time is ok, but please refrain from using toxic methods. as I said though, im sure you're a good person and you're not entirely wrong in taking space.
2026-07-02 21:07:50
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chenelle 👩🏻🦰 :
communication means nothing without comprehension, if someone can’t comprehend that an upset person needs time and space then communication isn’t gonna fix that
2026-06-29 17:00:46
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Juli :
Just say that you need space and I promise you I’ll understand
2026-06-30 04:12:32
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♬⋆.˚𝕯𝖗𝖚𝖓𝖐_𝕲𝖍𝖔𝖘𝖙˚.⋆♬ :
I understand you need to have communication but sometimes I wish THEY could just be mature enough to apologize first, especially when they were the reason I’m upset. I hate having to “be the bigger person” all the time
2026-06-28 17:11:56
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spamsss :
Uh no because communication makes everything better and how is the other person supposed to know what they did wrong if you don’t talk about it
2026-06-29 13:30:12
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alexa :
don't ignore them, but js let them know u don't wanna talk rn
2026-06-26 20:03:01
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sixsevelyn.1367 :
like sometimes i just need a minute
2026-06-27 18:36:38
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Alexis :
Ok but still even if you need to calm down and take time, don’t completely act like we’re not friends. Like I get we got into an argument / disagreement but after we can talk it out and resolve the conflict instead of trying to ignore and pretend like we were never friends…
2026-07-11 02:24:00
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Kaitlyn Marie🎀 :
No bc sometimes I need a minute to calm down. I say things I don’t mean and regret them if I don’t cool off first
2026-06-28 20:06:25
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bob :
communication!! most of the time when someone ignored me bc i upset them i lowk had no idea.
2026-06-27 17:55:29
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drinkWater-sponge :
no, we shouldn't ignore but work things out, set boundaries and talk what made them do that and what made you upset. ignoring people isnt a good habit because you're mad. you can take a break to calm down, but please dont ignore them
2026-06-26 20:03:54
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✪⚓️Lea (decomposedㅅ☘︎)⚓️✪ :
normalize "hey, I don't wanna talk about this rn"
2026-07-08 03:25:31
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marlene :
Communication is key
2026-06-30 04:03:33
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Alysssaaaa :
Js tell the person before u completely ignore them..
2026-07-20 04:33:13
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Kade :
But I’m a sensitive person and plus I want to talk about it bc I want to make things better ect
2026-08-08 02:16:41
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princesss_snooki :
everyone saying this is immature when my therapist told me exactly this. responding when ur out of ur emotion mindset is always better than escalating
2026-07-02 19:12:15
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