Ashley Yang
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Friday 26 June 2026 20:57:03 GMT
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arnidog :
Because our labor is expected so it’s not considered ‘thoughtful’ or additional ‘effort’ 🙊
2026-06-27 16:43:12
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Rara :
My ex husband would always say I never asked you to do that.
2026-06-27 12:17:45
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huh :
this made me cancel the cologne order i placed for my husband 😂😂 thank u
2026-06-27 07:08:39
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Anne LaRose :
bell hooks said caregiving isn’t love and that shook me to my core!
2026-06-27 10:13:53
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bylillian.co :
“You did?”
2026-06-27 13:54:48
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Pure-source :
Becca Bloom really is brilliant
2026-06-27 16:46:53
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user1320242646257 :
just be single, it is way more peaceful and enjoyable
2026-06-27 21:36:25
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VenusNoir🌙 :
What do you mean he said “you did?”
2026-06-26 21:14:31
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ben141407 :
Saw it and agree with it. While you think you’re loving, he doesn’t see it.
2026-06-27 02:24:27
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ajs98 :
In my first relationship, I was super giving and affectionate and understanding. I always wanted to make sure he was okay. He dumped me over the phone after being together for 3 yrs.
2026-06-27 13:14:50
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Anza :
The key is to stop masking and pushing beyond our capacity. so the “uselessness” is honest, and periodic. And then you shower your man with appreciation when they carry the baton. AND when you carry the baton tell him before you do it. “Babe, you seem stressed. Why don’t I get take out so you can take a break?”
2026-06-27 14:27:33
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celinatea66 :
You all need to listen to Shera… like…
2026-06-26 23:15:11
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Bds0197 :
She’s right. The last relationship I was in for 10 years, I gave and gave and gave to little to no recognition. The minute I removed my effort, we fell apart. Walking away was the best thing for me and my self worth.
2026-06-27 13:32:30
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Marina may :
I believe in this. The less we do, the more peace we get instead. We get taken for granted a lot and wear ourselves out
2026-06-27 16:37:22
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cflemingg :
I got pregnant and all I do after work is sleep so I’m very useless with dinner and house chores right now. He does it all and imma keep that in mind after the baby comes too 😂
2026-06-27 13:37:58
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Moonlight 🌙 Mama :
He now gets the same effort from me that he puts in. He gives minimal effort on Mother’s Day. I used to get really upset about. Like, REALLY upset. I finally decided to do absolutely nothing for Father’s Day and he barely noticed. I call my dad and so nice things for him. My husband gets whatever effort the kids put in. I feel so much better and less resentful about it now.
2026-06-28 00:38:39
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Iheartthe90s :
Hmm there might be something to this. I am pretty “useless” to my husband and yet he obviously adores me. And we’ve been happily married > 20 years.
2026-06-27 17:34:44
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Frankie Gee :
This is a lie every person I’ve ever done acts of love to has become obsessed with me and even 2015 years later still trying to get back together with me
2026-06-27 14:46:49
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AmyGenX :
This is why i was married for 20 years and then decided all my work was useless. I will never marry again and live a very fulfilled life single.
2026-06-27 01:13:59
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drteapodiatry 👣 :
Do less. So it’s meaningful when you do something
2026-06-27 14:48:36
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kurotenshi :
I don't do anything. I'm just a girl ☺️
2026-06-27 02:54:47
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Paula Yadira :
I love him, but I love myself wwaaaayyyyyyy more
2026-06-27 01:47:56
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Pixie Dust 1437 :
My boyfriend who I did everything for and I loved him sooo much. And he in the end left me
2026-06-27 21:58:37
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