@unbotheredclub: I think she’s right

lydiaroots :

Devil's advocate here, but no, especially if you're young. If you're in your mid twenties yes. hes already as evolved as hes ever going to be. but please don't judge someone before they have had the ability and life experience. take everything with a pinch of salt.

Abby :) :

Gracethegay :

Theres so much mediocrity and unhappiness and disappointment in the world that we cannot change, don’t let your relationship be one of those mediocre things

mothermom67 :

She’s right

excitedflippers :

Better dating advice (if you want to marry) pick 3 things that are your non negotiables. And then compromise on everything else as appropriate. But any more than 3 means you’ll never find your partner.

kimberlykittle1 :

The best advice I got from a mother when I was dating her daughter’s brother-in-law was you have to decide what you can live with and what you can live without and that’s a relationship wowser

Amarvas :

Wait. I got to let this one really sink in 😳

Trollydolly13 :

And even if it is… it sometimes not

H🦋 :

People can give you everything you ever want in the beginning and that’s called lovebombing.

Molly💚💛💜❤️🩵🖤🩷🩶🤎💙🤍🧡 :

for the record though dont use this advice to settle and allow things that you shouldn't. compromise is very important, but you should be having a good time with your SO

A from G’ville :

I heard that advice as, no relationship will ever be “everything”, so don’t screw up a good thing b/c you’re looking past them to the next,

Amal :

Hell no.

Liv 🤎 :

I don’t think any one can be everything I’ve ever wanted plus more…. 😅

unsure4sure00 :

REAL ASF THO

KK ⚡️ :

Ok ate

rat queen :

Wait this is awful advice

jupiter :

real asf. i want my dream man or i want to stay single. nothing in between

Dom in Chicago :

100%

hadley :

But sometimes it doesn’t need to be I think people often put way too much expectation in relationships when young - if you get along and make each other happy maybe that’s all it needs to be doesn’t need to be marriage at the end of the

Soozrose :

Can you please link this shirt in your shopmy 🙂

victoriastral :

Thats so sad…

underwaterkey :

But also doesn’t work out when he’s everything you wanted and more

Arwester_ :

important to understand this delusion is toxic to a relationship, and many seems to get that "grass is greener on the other side" problem.

🦄 Fi 🇦🇺 :

The best advice I got as a young woman was "if you're not happy most of the time then you're spending the majority of your time with him miserable. You don't deserve that."