@cassiemomcoach: Most moms think staying calm means taking deep breaths. Or counting to 10. Or walking away before you lose it. But here's the problem: Those are coping strategies. They help you manage the explosion. They don't stop it from happening in the first place. If you want to actually stop yelling, you need to build capacity in your nervous system so the explosion never comes. That's the difference between surviving motherhood and actually enjoying it. Go to my LIB if you want to see the exact moves I use! #raisinglittles #emotionalregulation #respectfulparenting #toddlertantrum #parentinglittles