Health Visitor Ruth
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Saturday 27 June 2026 07:44:05 GMT
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Larry :
I still dont understand why people want to "have the baby on our own"... its so weird why cant we all spend time together? It just seems like a reason to break boundaries 😪
2026-06-27 09:21:26
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User112 :
I don't know why this relative wants to spend time with the kids without me and not want me present. That's how i see it 😅
2026-06-27 09:56:15
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Lena Victoria 💗 :
is it normal my baby is 10 months old and no one’s had her yet 😫
2026-06-27 19:38:56
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Evie :
I think it’s very creepy that people are so pushy to have the baby sleep over. I don’t see any reason for them to have time alone with my baby.
2026-06-27 21:57:46
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SamRCS :
I have honestly never understood why anyone thinks its important to have alone time with someone else's child.... I find it wierd
2026-06-28 16:15:22
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Heather Robinson :
Almost 3 years in and I still feel this exact way🙃🙃 why would I want to be apart!!
2026-06-27 10:44:12
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Hi xx :
I need help my son keeps waking between 4/6am and I’m going back to work soon and I need sleep 😭😭
2026-06-27 14:43:34
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Leah Doherty :
my baby is 10 months old and I've been away from him for 3 nights in those 10 months, my mother has minded him. am I awful for not letting my MIL mind him? I just feel more at ease with my mother having him but my partner keeps talking about a sleepover in his mother's and I'm just not comfortable with that.
2026-06-28 12:39:29
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meganscarlett123 :
Thank you so much for posting this! As a mum to a nearly 5 month old I’m sometimes made to feel like I’m not normal for not wanting other people to look after my baby.
2026-06-27 16:06:28
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A●●●●●A :
I feel like it's strange when people want alone time sith my child....what can u do with my child alone that you can't do when I'm around? any response is the wrong response...I only trust my mum and will only ever trust my mum to have my daughter alone!
2026-07-09 22:52:16
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no_name_needed🚚 :
never happening
2026-06-27 12:24:29
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Emily Muter :
My daughter had a sleepover with her grandma 2 days ago she’s 8 months old and I hated every minute of it. It was supposed to be me getting better sleep but I slept worse without her there
2026-06-27 10:49:08
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Аni :
16m old here and I have never left her to be babysat. Not for a day not for 15 minutes lol.
2026-06-28 07:23:00
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Smimi90 :
I still can’t leave my 7 month old. Have left him for 1 hour once with his father to go to an appointment. Will see when I feel ready
2026-06-27 12:40:05
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Lily Louise :
My answer is and always will be, I had a baby because I wanted a baby not to pawn her off on other people. 🤷🏼♀️
2026-06-29 00:12:59
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Sadie Stevens :
I had my grandaughter for the night, for the first time. she is 2 in Aug and I’ve waited patiently for wen mum and dad felt ready 💖
2026-06-27 08:35:27
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krystina_first_time_mum :
I got pressured for my little one to spend time with my in-laws for a day when she was 3 months and I hated it! It’s made me not want to do it again but feeling pressured by them! I wish people would understand 😭💖
2026-06-27 08:06:12
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Jessica :
My daughter was 3 in March and had first sleep over at her Nan’s(my mum) in May and that was only because me and her dad were in hospital as I was in labour with her brother
2026-06-27 18:32:27
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Yonola :
Please tell my mil.. I'm getting tired of the expectations
2026-06-27 19:13:25
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user23379388478116 :
Mine is 2 next week and we haven’t spent an hour apart 😂 I’m absolutely NOT ready
2026-06-27 20:43:29
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Sophie Jones :
Nope, my son is almost 2 and I’ll never allow sleepovers
2026-06-28 04:51:09
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Meg. :
This!! It’s literally YOUR child like wth. I’ve never felt the need to have family babies or kids for sleepovers I’ve always visited and won’t intrude if my daughters have their own families even though I’m their mother, they are that babies mother🫶🏼
2026-06-28 23:05:55
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LitteMatt :
1 month pp. My partner asked me when would we be ready for the baby to spend the night with the grandparents and honestly....not for a long while 😅
2026-06-27 22:21:21
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itsemmalouisexo1 :
11 month old I’ve been away from her for 15 mins in the entire 11 months, I go back work tomorrow, only 2 days a week but I feel so sick leaving her even with parents, I don’t want to be separated from her 😭 definitely no sleepovers from me for a long while.
2026-06-29 06:04:30
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Lissy :
I feel like this and having so much pressure but also need to go back to work in two weeks 😭😭 Did I mention my baby won’t even take a bottle🙈🙈
2026-06-27 08:56:59
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