@new.man.codes: Here are 7 things happening inside his mind that he probably can't put into words. 1. He sees every way he betrayed himself. This is where the Tunnel begins. Every time he stayed quiet, abandoned his truth, or became who others needed him to be suddenly comes into focus. The weight of it is overwhelming. 2. He feels shame. Not shame placed on him by others. Shame between him and himself. The quiet pain of knowing where he compromised. The truth is, only honourable men feel this. It's not proof he's broken. It's proof he remembers who he is. 3. He feels empty. He still provides. He still performs. But inside, something has gone silent. From the outside, his life looks the same. From the inside, it feels like he's merely existing. 4. He questions everything. His business. His purpose. His relationship. Not because they're wrong, but because the identity that built them no longer fits the man he's becoming. 5. He feels anger. Beneath the numbness is rage. At the people he accommodated. At the life he accepted. And eventually, at himself. Owning that is one of the hardest parts of the passage. 6. He can't be rescued. His partner, children or business can't pull him through this. The Tunnel asks one question: Who are you when nobody can do the work for you? 7. The Tunnel isn't a crisis. It's an initiation. It's the passage from the man he performed to the man he truly is. The darkness becomes the doorway, if he's willing to walk through it instead of running from it. He doesn't need saving. He needs someone who knows he makes it through. Book a call with me if you’re in the tunnel and are ready to move through it. Link in bio. #FatherWound #MensWork #GroundedMasculine #MensMentalHealth #USA
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Saturday 27 June 2026 09:13:35 GMT
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Cedar136msncom :
I dont see the light
2026-06-27 16:15:04
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user67295307913220 :
geez this is exactly how I've been feeling. constantly reflecting on past mistakes abd it never leaves my mind. lost all interest in everything and feel like I'm just existing.
2026-06-27 13:44:01
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LevelandPlumb :
This is the best description I’ve ever found of what I’ve been going through
2026-06-28 11:49:22
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philipdanieljohnson :
Spot on holy shit 100% accurate
2026-06-28 14:12:54
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chiefkicabich :
This.... I had no idea what was happening to me, Thank you. over the last year I've felt every bit of what you've spoke of. its a soul crushing weight to carry while trying to be "OK" for the ones counting on you, I'm on my way back. Thank you ma'am.
2026-06-27 19:37:07
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Wee Eck fae Scotland :
Interesting…
2026-06-28 13:02:13
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Erland Frojelin :
Yea, no….
2026-06-28 04:45:49
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joeBamaBigMike :
Ya ❗️❗️❗️it’s called growing up ❗️❗️❗️❗️learn live learn ❗️❗️❗️
2026-06-28 01:33:52
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Jay O’Gee Em :
I’m in the damn tunnel
2026-06-28 03:27:53
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WeAllHaveOne :
Never quite thought of this this way. Assumed it was just the hindsight wisdom that comes with age and looking back on your life.
2026-06-27 20:38:00
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user59349411758 :
54. I am definitely through the door and in the tunnel. Now that I realize that I’m going to come out of it as the true me. That makes me feel good
2026-06-27 22:25:21
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Primo :
Beautiful and insightful!
2026-06-27 17:18:21
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JME @ 53 🇦🇺 :
Damn ….. close to on point 💯🖤
2026-06-28 04:34:07
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user1745384801203 :
Yup I am there now. Funny never knew what was up until I agreed with all of these
2026-06-27 23:36:47
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Tok Tiker :
I’ve been in the tunnel so long I’ve had my mail forwarded. 56.
2026-06-28 10:44:18
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WLET :
This resonated with me so much
2026-06-28 13:21:37
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Mike202526 :
Lost in the tunnel
2026-06-28 14:09:19
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Zk7787 :
you could have posted this like 10 years ago....... 😂... just kidding. only life will teach us these things. I often wonder how things would have turned out if I made different decisions, but it is what it is.....too late to give up now..
2026-06-28 13:10:42
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Vic vega :
Thank you for sharing. 100% M E
2026-06-27 20:32:09
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mrdontplaywellwithothers :
I've been standing here staring at it.
2026-06-27 17:33:13
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Denis Coyne :
A hard lesson learnt. Let go and let God.
2026-06-27 17:55:02
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X :
Prolific
2026-06-27 19:04:35
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2sportchamp :
How tall are you?
2026-06-27 20:15:26
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Michael🪽Kan❤️ :
I'm getting through the damn tunnel
2026-06-27 19:55:21
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Shay :
Don't recognise any of those. I do feel tired a lot of the time and dont like that I dont have the same energy to keep myself passably fit. I'm 55.
2026-06-27 13:46:05
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