@new.man.codes: Here are 7 things happening inside his mind that he probably can't put into words. 1. He sees every way he betrayed himself. This is where the Tunnel begins. Every time he stayed quiet, abandoned his truth, or became who others needed him to be suddenly comes into focus. The weight of it is overwhelming. 2. He feels shame. Not shame placed on him by others. Shame between him and himself. The quiet pain of knowing where he compromised. The truth is, only honourable men feel this. It's not proof he's broken. It's proof he remembers who he is. 3. He feels empty. He still provides. He still performs. But inside, something has gone silent. From the outside, his life looks the same. From the inside, it feels like he's merely existing. 4. He questions everything. His business. His purpose. His relationship. Not because they're wrong, but because the identity that built them no longer fits the man he's becoming. 5. He feels anger. Beneath the numbness is rage. At the people he accommodated. At the life he accepted. And eventually, at himself. Owning that is one of the hardest parts of the passage. 6. He can't be rescued. His partner, children or business can't pull him through this. The Tunnel asks one question: Who are you when nobody can do the work for you? 7. The Tunnel isn't a crisis. It's an initiation. It's the passage from the man he performed to the man he truly is. The darkness becomes the doorway, if he's willing to walk through it instead of running from it. He doesn't need saving. He needs someone who knows he makes it through. Book a call with me if you’re in the tunnel and are ready to move through it. Link in bio. #FatherWound #MensWork #GroundedMasculine #MensMentalHealth #USA

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user5708893596803
Cedar136msncom :
I dont see the light
2026-06-27 16:15:04
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user67295307913220
user67295307913220 :
geez this is exactly how I've been feeling. constantly reflecting on past mistakes abd it never leaves my mind. lost all interest in everything and feel like I'm just existing.
2026-06-27 13:44:01
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levelandplumb
LevelandPlumb :
This is the best description I’ve ever found of what I’ve been going through
2026-06-28 11:49:22
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danthelandscaper
philipdanieljohnson :
Spot on holy shit 100% accurate
2026-06-28 14:12:54
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chiefkicabich
chiefkicabich :
This.... I had no idea what was happening to me, Thank you. over the last year I've felt every bit of what you've spoke of. its a soul crushing weight to carry while trying to be "OK" for the ones counting on you, I'm on my way back. Thank you ma'am.
2026-06-27 19:37:07
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ericmalcolm58
Wee Eck fae Scotland :
Interesting…
2026-06-28 13:02:13
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erlandfrojelin
Erland Frojelin :
Yea, no….
2026-06-28 04:45:49
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joebamabigmike3
joeBamaBigMike :
Ya ❗️❗️❗️it’s called growing up ❗️❗️❗️❗️learn live learn ❗️❗️❗️
2026-06-28 01:33:52
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jgm112087
Jay O’Gee Em :
I’m in the damn tunnel
2026-06-28 03:27:53
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justagrowndad
WeAllHaveOne :
Never quite thought of this this way. Assumed it was just the hindsight wisdom that comes with age and looking back on your life.
2026-06-27 20:38:00
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enjoytheride3
user59349411758 :
54. I am definitely through the door and in the tunnel. Now that I realize that I’m going to come out of it as the true me. That makes me feel good
2026-06-27 22:25:21
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primo812
Primo :
Beautiful and insightful!
2026-06-27 17:18:21
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joelyeaton500
JME @ 53 🇦🇺 :
Damn ….. close to on point 💯🖤
2026-06-28 04:34:07
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user1745384801203
user1745384801203 :
Yup I am there now. Funny never knew what was up until I agreed with all of these
2026-06-27 23:36:47
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gothampd_2158
Tok Tiker :
I’ve been in the tunnel so long I’ve had my mail forwarded. 56.
2026-06-28 10:44:18
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wlet10
WLET :
This resonated with me so much
2026-06-28 13:21:37
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usermike625
Mike202526 :
Lost in the tunnel
2026-06-28 14:09:19
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zk7787
Zk7787 :
you could have posted this like 10 years ago....... 😂... just kidding. only life will teach us these things. I often wonder how things would have turned out if I made different decisions, but it is what it is.....too late to give up now..
2026-06-28 13:10:42
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vic.vega93
Vic vega :
Thank you for sharing. 100% M E
2026-06-27 20:32:09
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mrdontplaywellwithothers
mrdontplaywellwithothers :
I've been standing here staring at it.
2026-06-27 17:33:13
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denis.coyne
Denis Coyne :
A hard lesson learnt. Let go and let God.
2026-06-27 17:55:02
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suciigan
X :
Prolific
2026-06-27 19:04:35
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2sportchamp
2sportchamp :
How tall are you?
2026-06-27 20:15:26
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michaelkanlove
Michael🪽Kan❤️ :
I'm getting through the damn tunnel
2026-06-27 19:55:21
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1970seamus
Shay :
Don't recognise any of those. I do feel tired a lot of the time and dont like that I dont have the same energy to keep myself passably fit. I'm 55.
2026-06-27 13:46:05
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