@beyondthebruise: Pay attention to how they react when you express pain. That's who they really are… #d#dvsurvivor#narctok#narcissisticabuse #breakthecycle

Black and Co :

I got told “ your not perfect “ as if that had anything to do with what hurt me

nattiedabaddie :

I always ended up apologizing when I brought up something that bothered me

timewert637 :

Wow very good! Thanks

WillUThink2x :

I got a blank stare

❌ReformedGenX🐠❌ :

Exactly!!!! Or they respond with “well you did this…” so hurtful. 💔

Donna Seward Noll :

Except i DO sometimes feel like i can’t do anything right.

MammaMooseAK :

Exactly!! Spot on!

Bonbomy Yak :

Yessss😭😪😔

Vanessa 🦋 :

Unfortunately I married this person because “most” of the time he was so kind and fun. I left when I realized we were modeling a toxic loving relationship for our kids. They deserve authentic, healthy love. We ALL do if we show up with an open heart! 💕

Piano Princess Norah :

martyandkrystal1989 :

in 36 years I never received a reaction if I told him that something bothered me let alone of any reaction.

Messenger*Martinez :

Yes

hooping4jesus :

100! My ex was super defensive every time I confronted him it sucked life out of me

Chase"Mr.MeToo"Wynia :

that is the TRUTH!!!! 💯💯💯

Daisy Dukes and cowboy boots :

Exactly

chrislpq :

25 years. i’m officially f*cked.

TheDatingProfessor :

Or when you say no

da_general_414 :

Exactly

ninaAganov :

Don’t ever stop making these videos. I had a friend do this to me. Finally at 1 year without speaking. I’ve lost 30 pounds, fallen in love with being outside again, got my spark back. She tried to dim my light

Nicholas2013 :

I totally agree with this, but what if someone always says you hurt them but you didn’t actually hurt them? And I mean like constantly being a victim.

Karen Polk Baker :

He turned it around on me and then I got the silent treatment. So glad I’m out of that relationship!

Flybat2.0 :

My mother likes to scream and blame me and her favorite go to is “I’m just a bad mother”

Charlie Otis :

100% lived it

cole777 :

Sounds like my boss