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Katyyy :
This statement really isn’t always true. Some people (including myself) change themselves completely (the way they act, dress, talk, etc.) just to ‘fit in’ or make friends, but they still can’t, even after doing everything they could. No matter how nice they are, or how much they care
2026-06-29 22:52:35
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mya💐 :
Idk but it’d probably help if they told me what the problem was instead of just ghosting me 😁
2026-07-02 13:23:09
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alexa wynn ྀིྀི 🐞 :
i lost all of my friends in seventh grade with no explanation they just ghosted me and i was the nicest kid i spent so much time crying wondering if i did anything. so no this statement isn’t always true
2026-06-28 00:25:39
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🍉Thatlesbianyoufollow✌️🍉 :
I don’t have friends and tend to lose them if I do, and I KNOW that that means that I must be the problem because I am the common denominator. But I don’t know WHY I’m the problem or how to fix it. I think sometimes I’m just annoying and talk too much. But I have a lot of love to give and want to make sure people don’t feel as alone as I have before. And I guess somewhere that’s lost in translation, and I end up losing everyone. I wish I could figure out exactly what I’m doing wrong
2026-06-27 18:18:14
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Jocelyn cesena :
I don’t thinks it always the case. everyone has faults in who they are and make mistakes! No one’s perfect
2026-06-29 23:31:31
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𝖐𝖊𝖗𝖞𝖓𝖆 :
yes i am the problem, i have principles and boundaries
2026-07-02 20:16:04
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Steph Lengenfelder :
Everyone stopped talking to me because I was the one not accepting/understanding why they’d hang out together and talk shit about one another. They are still friends, I’m the one everyone blocked when I started asking questions. Make it make sense please, because I don’t think being loyal and respectful is a problem.
2026-07-01 06:27:54
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Zoe :
you also have to take into perspective that we know we’re the problem but no one will tell us how to fix it
2026-06-29 19:40:50
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iamatay🍃 :
i understood i am the problem i just don't know why...
2026-07-01 00:53:27
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3ndek DTB ❤️🩹 :
I have my difficulties for sure but it can’t be only me, people get influenced to easy
2026-06-27 15:39:50
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user.27261728929 :
oh trust me, I KNOW that the problem is me, cuz how is that possibile that I still haven’t met real friends. Yet I try my best to be a good one. But it’s still not enough, i’m not enough. So maybe I will not admit it to you, but I know it
2026-06-27 23:25:16
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★Em★ :
the only problem is ppl dont say WHAT the problem is with us if we are not told how will we know??
2026-06-29 13:11:57
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𝐖ills🍂⋆.𐙚 ̊ :
yeah well i pay everything for them, i try to be funny, i give them my homework, i do everything for them and they leave just like that. It started summer and i have no one, they go out with my sister not with me
2026-06-30 09:42:53
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Laura T :
I haven't lost any friends I purposely let go of the one's not worth keeping. Life's too short to waste x
2026-06-29 09:39:03
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ashtyn! :
i know im the problem i just dont know exactly why 💔 i wish people would just tell me so i can improve myself instead of just dropping me.
2026-06-28 05:55:51
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pookiedooked :
If me giving them my time and efforts, inviting them to everywhere I go and experience, sharing them what i have and helping them when they need, being their therapist, taking them out as much as i could, including them everywhere, having to beg my parents to let me go out with them when it was an icy road is a problem….idk what to do anymore but at least I have a better life🤷♀️
2026-06-29 06:54:39
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BYLER 💛💙 :
that is not always the case...not even talking about me now, just saying that it is so more nuanced and deeper than "everyone leaves me so that must mean I am the problem". Sometimes you are the problem yes, but other times..
2026-07-01 07:47:16
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ₛᵢᵣᵢ ᛑᛗᛛ :
everytime we agree that someone's annoying or whatever the next day they're besties and IM the weird one for not talking with them like wtf????
2026-07-01 05:32:26
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💗✝️Hannah Grace✝️💗 :
See I lose a friend, so I change what they didnt like, that makes me lose a different friend but gain the first friend, and then it's a cycle
2026-06-29 02:17:40
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vicy.s.life :
Sometimes you might be the problem but not always if u have no friends cus everyone around u thinks u r too emotional or just too much its neither of your’s fault cus u just dont match. If you did them dirty then it is your fault just like if they did u dirty it’s their fault. It depends on the situation my 12 year old self would’ve said “i know” to the vid and prob become more insecure but now i realised i wasn’t the problem cus i finally found ppl that match my vibe. Hope that helps yall, take care!💕
2026-07-01 14:31:07
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