@loudly.leo: It was the moments like this at the end that really showed me it wasn’t just the infidelity that broke our relationship, but a thousand, careless little cuts along the way. #breakup #relationships #patriarchy #infidelity #healing

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wildmage.nhymn
WildMage Nhymn 🌙✨ :
I stopped telling him I was getting sick and started calling it allergies if if was a light enough cold suddenly he stopped "always getting sick" from me
2026-06-28 02:59:41
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jenbets4
jenbets :
It is that deep.
2026-06-27 19:02:06
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kittycat.2023
KittyCat2023 :
Consideration is the highest form of love ❤️❤️❤️
2026-06-27 15:27:43
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veni_vidi_wtf
veni_vidi_wtf :
My friend and I have a phrase: it’s not helpful if it doesn’t help.
2026-06-27 18:32:29
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zeus_strider
Zeus Strider :
first let me say your ex-boyfriend sounds awful and he sucks and in no way am I defending his behavior but I don't think the man cold is always (just) an excuse, I'm a trans man ever since I started medically transitioning my pain tolerance dropped drastically and I DO get sicker and its so weird because I always thought my brother & father was such a cry babies when it came to catching a cold, turns out hormones affect a lot of things you wouldn't think they would.
2026-06-27 17:55:05
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lummppywuddle
Lumppy Wuddle :
Asked my ex to go to the store to get oj when I was sick. It was the only thing I asked for. He came back with everything but oj and then he got mad that I went and got it for myself.
2026-06-27 23:38:27
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justplayingjames
James :
Having someone who will take care of you "just because" and not because of what you do for them is so good. I didn't have it in my marriage, but I have it now and I'm never going back
2026-06-27 16:21:56
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a.wild.bibbit
liddy :
Interesting that there are so many folded comments on this
2026-06-27 17:53:07
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maddypageknitwear
MADDY PAGE KNITWEAR :
I got sick the week before he revealed to me that he’d been cheating on me- I was so confused and angry at why he wouldn’t help me through my sickness, and I thought to myself ‘I shouldn’t be with someone who ignores me when I need help’
2026-06-27 20:56:26
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ifyouonlyknewnow
JJ :
I think most of us have experienced this. I’ve been divorced for 10yrs and I’m at peace now
2026-06-27 17:05:18
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all_but_dissertation
Jana_Ph.D. Candidate :
Yes, I asked on a Saturday morning, after being up miserable with a fever if he could drive me the 5 minutes to Urgent Care. He wanted to sleep in. So I took myself. Fainted in the wait room.
2026-06-27 23:36:27
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thedraconicpagan
thedraconicpagan :
It is very much that deep.
2026-06-27 22:05:05
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slim_katie1
Katie Jane :
One time me and my now husband, when we were dating, he got sick and I went to help him, and I fell sick. So just two really sick people TRYING TO HELP AS BEST WE COULD 😭 and that’s how it should be.
2026-06-28 01:56:02
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claudiaisabelle15
Claudia Isabelle💆🏽‍♀️🏳️‍🌈 :
AND IT IS THAT DEEP!!!!!!
2026-06-28 14:24:07
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_melissa.e
Melissa :
I am a HUGE hypochondriac and TERRIFIED of getting sick. I avoid my husband when he’s sick by separating the rooms we sleep in, and bringing him meds, drinks and food but keeping a distance. You can do both.
2026-06-27 19:45:15
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gamergraffix
GamerGraffix🇨🇦🏳️‍🌈 :
You shouldn’t be grateful he got you anything at all. He should have cared enough to ask you what medicine you needed.
2026-06-29 21:01:41
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rachelaustin06
Rachel Austin :
Every single one of your videos reminds me of my past relationship and makes me SO thankful to be single💖
2026-06-27 16:14:59
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charlies_art1
Charlie’s_Art :
When my last partner got sick, she was always so sweet about not wanting to get me sick, even when I insisted I was OK with taking care of her even if it meant I got sick. And the rare time when I got sick, she would bring me tea and medicine, but stay in the other room, cause she didn’t wanna get sick, but she would still check in every other hour to make sure I was doing alright, and I think that is the sweetest relationship I’ve ever had
2026-06-28 22:29:35
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makeitrayne45
Rayne: horror variety gaming💚 :
Experienced this with my ex. Now I’m in a loving actual reciprocal relationship and it’s changed my life. I love that you say ‘respectful love’ here because that’s exactly what we should be looking for. Love that considers and respects us 💚
2026-06-27 16:49:50
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itsmeyourfavorite13
Christine Grisanti :
No, it’s not love at all. Love isn’t something you feel it’s actions you take.
2026-06-27 19:58:06
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jasminemcfly
jasminemcf :
Since my divorce I keep thinking of the quote “you accept the love you think you deserve.” I definitely know I deserved a hell of a lot more now.
2026-06-28 01:43:51
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daddys_girl110
🥰 :
I asked My current boyfriend to help put away laundry, he picked up my pile of pants and said “ idk where these go” I said “ open the drawers and you’ll figure it out” I went to put away the rest of the laundry and my pants were in the shirts drawer and my shirts were in my pj/ underwear drawers. There are 3 drawers to my dresser…..
2026-07-05 03:47:12
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dead_eye.trust.me
Dead Eye :
I was hearing you out till you got to the "receiving scraps" part. You told him to get medecine, him assuming there was none left since you asked him to get some, went all the way to the store to buy some. You said you needed dayquil, did you ask him to get dayquil? or did you just ask him to get medecine. I get where you're coming from but calling the effort he put in "scraps" is just being unfair.
2026-06-29 13:54:36
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melaynaross
Melayna :
In my past relationship it was similar. I struggle with Christmas, so I would take the first week of January off to recover. The ex and his son both just happened to get sick during my time off, so then rather than recover I had to play nurse. I stopped taking that week off, and even no longer in the relationship I haven't taken that week off again.
2026-06-29 16:16:49
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angeladurbin
angeladurbin :
I’m sorry you went through that. I’m glad you’re able to share this very real experience with us now. Thanks for being such an open space! Love your content!!
2026-06-27 15:22:47
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