xoxo, cj •relationship burnout
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cole_thebester :
What if their words through phone calls don’t match their actions and words when in person? Like over the phone can be more guarded but in person the conversations and guard is down completely?
2026-06-27 18:09:16
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ivannn 🌙 :
hi again cj! my partner and i are still talking and i do think there’s hope but im trying to get better at not bringing up our relationship and just letting us exist in a space as friends first. any tips? :)
2026-06-28 07:37:37
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Soren :
We’ve been in no contact for 4 months now but we don’t have kids, so we have no reason to talk or see each other. But after 15 years together it doesn’t feel done even though we don’t talk and the divorce is underway. I’m not blocked or anything, I just don’t message to respect her space. But I still don’t even fully understand why she left and I know she’s not seeing anyone.
2026-06-27 22:50:48
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Roman :
She said she doesn’t want me gone from her life and still loves me she just needs time and and isn’t ready to get back into a relationship right now, she’s starting therapy and meds hoping that will help, and she just wants to be friends right now cause she’s exhausted mentally, can staying friends work, or is no contact the best way? Cause every time we go no contact she reinitiates contact for a few days then goes back to no contact, and she said she’s confused and doesn’t know what space looks like to her
2026-06-27 16:25:44
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Zee :
how did you know that you still wanted to give it another try after you were so done with it in the beginning you were sure you would never go back?
2026-06-27 17:19:51
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nina :
Hi! I really love your videos, they really relate to my situation and they give me more awareness of my ex's situation! Thank you for this, I really needed this❤️
2026-06-28 08:03:00
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Kira | CareBear🥰 :
I asked for a separation last week. You have helped me with perspective. Did you move out?
2026-06-27 15:48:49
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jessmgonz_ :
My husband has blocked me from social media, but we still live together (2 kids) & he wants physical touch still. I told him I’m ready to move to no contact & to give me space (no more physical touch) bc I am feeling done. He says I need to give him time because it’s hard since we’ve been together for 10 years. But it just makes me irritated because I need the space and I am done with it all. What to say or do? (Moving out not an option for us yet)
2026-06-27 17:22:55
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Blox Golf 958 :
I've had a hard time actually giving her space. It's been a year and I really haven't given her space. The most I've gone not texting her is about a month. I've told her I loved her a thousand times, told her I want to do it different. All through text. She doesn't respond. Have I pushed her too far? She hasn't blocked me (I've told her she should) I just want my family back. Seven years I lived with her. Raised her three kids with her. I miss them all so much.
2026-06-27 19:15:37
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caitlinrach :
Hi CJ. You’ve already answered one of mine but i hope you can answer another. My partner is the BOP and wants space (no contact). He said he still wants it to work but we both need healing space (baggage from the past). Therefore he is taking this space as a breakup before we reconnect in sept. His texts are quite formal as he’s trying to be strong. Is this normal?
2026-06-27 19:03:12
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selfless :
She asked me to be my friend and keep communicating, but I said I can’t be her friend rn, she’s too inconsistent and it was hurting me. She wants to keep communicating but she takes days to respond me even tho I don’t press her or anything or talk about us, she talks to our friends as usually, but for me I think it’s too heavy for her, she also was cutting every way of contact or favor we had for each other, in way that she was clearly to be trying to cut everything that had us connected in any way, but at same time she says she wants to help me and keep in contact. She says she loves me but not romantically anymore, etc, but her actions didn’t match her words, yet I respect her so much but I respect myself first
2026-06-27 16:15:17
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Tyler League :
what does respecting space look like with a young child and a shared bussiness
2026-06-27 15:51:20
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badlandergrady :
I've been trying not to contact but we have two kids one should be out on his own but that was part of the story of what has happened. the other child I want to see but she is acting as a friend instead of a parent and allowing him to do whatever he wants. I was the one who had rules of the house being broken.
2026-06-27 21:29:32
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Dre Jara :
What if blocked you're on all social media and any outlet or door, knowing they were to attatched to ever do it, but needed to in order to escape the pattern we were stuck in. Would a soft knock on here (we once sent each other things but never added each other) be appropriate, and if so how long from early may to try to initiate some sort of contact with a knock?
2026-06-27 21:21:30
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Kielbasa :
What if my burnt out partner is emotionally numb, depleted and indifferent but still have a desire for intimacy?
2026-06-28 15:11:01
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Lori Schneider421 :
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2026-06-27 15:47:53
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Lori Schneider421 :
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2026-06-27 19:29:52
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