in college i dyed my eyebrows blonde and it looked “ugly” but i felt the most me id ever felt in my LIFE… i think abt that a lot
2026-06-30 01:33:57
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yourmother1134 :
i used to cut my bangs MIRCO like taylor russell in bones, everyone hated them. but i never felt more me.
2026-07-01 03:05:05
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just4notherg1rll :
Why did u stop?
2026-06-27 16:17:07
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Soe :
the other day i read a quote that said “a cool person never thinks about being pretty or ugly” and that change my mentality
2026-06-27 17:25:42
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ughfine :
Ive learned that for me, the more time I spend on my appearence, the less happy I am with how I look. I think devoting that much energy to it makes me more nit picky and self critical, and it always feels like you can be doing more. More time in the gym, more makeup, more skincare, more time in the salon. There is no end once you start.
2026-06-27 16:58:46
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Anjali :
Agh yes. Self-consciousness, not self-hatred, is the opposite of confidence. Perpetually chasing the ease I had as a 4th grader who wore crocs & tie dye t-shirts every day.
2026-06-29 16:22:03
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Priscilla 🌟 :
“I wanted to be pretty more than I wanted my goals” like wow that’s a perspective shifter
2026-07-01 20:28:23
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Mac :
Did this by accident because I was so physically sick for a year when I was 18 that I gained 80 lbs and had to shave my head bc I didn’t have the strength to take care of my hair anymore. I had to learn radical self acceptance from that
2026-06-28 18:15:43
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Starla Dewdrop :
You become confident by doing what you say you are going to do.
You become confident when you strive to be the best version of yourself every single day.
I was taught to be kind and compassionate... 🤷♀️
2026-06-29 23:05:22
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Batzy :
This is extremely relatable
2026-06-27 15:52:50
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_officialninaa :
Yesss it’s like I stopped gaf I literally got to much shi to do to care
2026-06-30 08:07:14
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maddie :
“i wanted to be pretty more than i wanted to achieve my goals” … do not call me out like that 🫣
2026-07-03 04:40:58
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TA$HII👾 :
this is so true my 7th grade year I was so self conscious and anxious about my looks and what ppl thought until I got so exhausted and depressed I gave in and stopped caring about my looks and it was the most free and happy I’ve ever felt I wish I could go back 😹😹
2026-06-30 02:13:42
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Emma England :
One of my favorite quotes is Baldwin’s “I had to go through a time of isolation in order to come to terms with who and what I was"
2026-07-01 01:50:31
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Meek :
I’m the biggest I’ve ever been by far and I’ve been feeling so low! This year for my bday I ordered outfits I usually would never wear and wore it. Idc what people think anymore. I felt so beautiful for the first time in years!
2026-07-01 19:40:08
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AG :
After having both my babies I needed to be ugly for a while
2026-06-30 15:43:21
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huda ⚞^. .^⚟ :
i love your content so much you’re preaching about things that women need to hear. don’t listen to the haters
2026-06-28 04:14:38
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Butterfly.M1111 :
Here’s a lovely, weird, cross-over, cross-ocean & ages thing…my body has changed over decades of living. You are beautiful. We all are 🤷♀️💜 One day you will fully inhabit your self (with age) & it will be a freeing revelation 🤗 (pe
2026-06-27 16:01:20
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maeve o’malley :
This just healed some terrible part of my brain
2026-06-30 22:21:46
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Cherchil :
Im ugly for all my life, still not confident
2026-06-27 21:42:10
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