I recognise that they did the best with what they had and knew, but that doesn't minimise the impact it had on me. Recognising lack of capacity to give me what I needed and still need has allowed me to work on creating that capacity within myself for the child within me and my own children.
2026-06-27 17:23:32
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Nunnah yo bizness :
Nah my parents were a 4 out of 10 but I reversed the curse.
2026-06-28 23:41:07
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Lighthouse-discovery :
Wow!! Good one!❤️
2026-06-29 20:23:49
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la_paprica🇺🇦🏳️🌈 :
You know that meme with Kris Jenner, where she says "look at her go!" and "you're doing amazing sweetie" - I wanna be that kind of parent to myself
2026-06-27 20:44:44
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Arthur B Chaney :
my parents should have never had me
2026-06-27 18:06:43
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Tally Stone :
I wasn’t ready for that truth. But thank you. 🙏
2026-06-27 17:08:10
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𝕊𝕆𝕌𝕃WITCH 🌙 :
This video has opened up a portal to new perspectives within me.😳❤️
2026-06-28 03:23:55
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markkkk :
Interesting perspective.
2026-06-27 18:19:05
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purpleppleatr :
my parents do the thing they always do and then my mom subconsciously realizes she did it and then does the thing I wanted all along..
2026-06-28 00:55:44
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Angela | RN Homesteader :
Omg!!! I’m an amazing parent (according to my kids even the adult kids). Great advice I need to parent myself like I parent them.
2026-06-28 13:47:39
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Kim Aleatha York :
🙏🙏 thank you for this perspective 🙏
2026-06-28 16:21:15
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neptune cyrus🏳️⚧️🌀☀️ :
well i’m a lot poorer than my mama was so i don’t exactly have the same opportunities but i see where you coming from
2026-06-27 18:12:23
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Shanae :
PEOPLE NEED CONNECTION
2026-06-28 01:28:53
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WoestKonijn :
it's maybe not your fault, but it is your responsibility
2026-06-27 16:25:45
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coastalbelle_ :
I spoil myself and take my self awesome places 😩🔥😂 normal adult freedoms 😩 childhood dreams come true 🔥
2026-06-28 23:52:35
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Mind over matter :
Brother, thank you once again you make things super clear for people to understand. It’s not difficult but if you don’t understand and can’t see how clear it is, you can’t work towards changing. I love how you make things clear thank you again.👏👏👏
2026-06-27 17:27:55
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____sushi____011 :
Nooooooooo
2026-06-27 15:48:41
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ladystarart :
present… they need to. go to work all the time that you have food on the table ect
2026-06-27 20:05:50
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Digital Vagrancy :
I get what he’s saying, but… yeah you can still complain
2026-06-27 23:05:54
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holyjunkiefunkymonkey :
I realized this recently.. I treat myself the same ways my parents did, in the bad ways, I neglect myself and my needs the same way they did, I put everything off and myself off until last minute… I’m flipping it around now…
2026-06-27 17:41:04
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Skippie :
am I allowed to ask those questions to myself?!?! I feel like I'm going to get heald down and beaten again for asking for anything for my self.....but I'm an adult now, and I still feel scared to ask myself anything for fear of pain....still getting over a lot. thank you for showing me and others that it is ok to ask these questions. (healing slowly but surely)
2026-06-27 17:27:32
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⋆. 𐙚˚࿔ 🌀Zuzanna 🔆𝜗𝜚˚⋆ :
❤️❤️❤️
2026-06-27 15:48:03
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Funkcna_mama :
❤️❤️❤️
2026-06-27 19:06:54
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