@theshinaechoi: Ladies, you will not be happy long term with a man who is less accomplished and less ambitious than you are. [Dating & relationship advice & observations from a 53 yo woman who's been married & divorced twice]

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drea3615
Drea :
Ambition doesn’t just mean career - it can mean being a high quality parent, great friend, or flexible life style (money, travel, etc)
2026-06-29 00:14:29
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erin131517
erin131517 :
I’m a CEO, I need a fellow CEO. That energy creates a nuclear effect
2026-06-28 03:42:11
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picturemepoling
Poleislife :
This IS my closure. Thank you.
2026-06-27 23:01:16
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sassysassersons
Sassy Sassersons :
100% and then you catch yourself building him up and lose yourself. run from potential.
2026-08-20 00:46:57
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missmelaniebythesea
missmelaniebythesea :
My mom told me this on my WEDDING DAY
2026-06-28 01:31:38
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_bitesandflights_
Bites & Flights 🍽+✈️ :
I haven't met anyone in dating with more going on than me 😫😭
2026-06-28 02:16:20
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symmjml20
symmjml :
Insecure men are dangerous. DANGEROUS.
2026-08-05 01:39:02
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radmads11
madison :
watched my dad resent my mother for being more accomplished. i promised to never allow myself to fall into that myself
2026-08-19 20:06:22
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imeojeda
Imelda :
I’m a PhD student and just started dating a engineer that has a PhD, he’s so smart and this is the first time that I’m dating someone with similar education level and it’s such a different experience. I respect his grit and work ethic and that’s so attractive
2026-06-29 08:19:41
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baradidardi
Baradi Thornton 🧿 :
My husband is really ambitious and has done well for himself. He also pushes me and invests in things that are linked to my goals and ambitions. This is something I really appreciate about him.
2026-06-28 10:44:15
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londasalazar
LondaSalazar :
They drag you down. Trust me.
2026-08-21 01:07:46
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amandalynettee
Amanda Lynette :
This is really affecting me. I’ve been with my husband for 4 years and it’s been very rough
2026-06-28 04:44:12
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sbgh44
Sabsab :
Performative support hit me. Its true, i hear the words but dont see the action. I saw a quote once that said ambitious women need men who are twice as ambitious, and now this.
2026-08-20 02:24:50
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vee.ugc818
Vee ✨ Gold Coast Creator :
As a 44 yr old woman who has been divorced and now in a beautiful relationship with a driven and ambitious man - this is 💯 correct
2026-06-28 00:30:52
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unafulanaana
Vi :
When I realized that our level of ambition was different I realized that I would be the only one building towards the life I wanted instead of building one we envisioned together, it was over for me
2026-06-28 13:07:31
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flotus__wendy
flotus__wendy :
I broke up with my ex because of this because my guts told me this trait of his would be a problem in the future but good guy overall..
2026-06-28 10:59:48
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millydotcom
milly :
mh!!! i stood up and applauded.
2026-08-19 16:39:46
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jessicabeeating
jessbeeating :
I told a man i couldn’t date him because he wasnt ambitious enough for me. I have a life i see for myself and I need a partner that can build it with me.
2026-08-04 19:58:14
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rachelrg2021
Rachel Gonzalez :
That is my current situation. I have tried to be patient, but I feel like just moving on.
2026-06-28 01:57:02
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chriszlmynizzl
Chris ♛ :
Let me say this, love will not pay the bills
2026-06-29 00:18:46
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sunflowermary44
Mary 🌻 :
I just ended a 3 year relationship over this. It felt amazing to choose myself.
2026-06-28 03:14:15
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justice4reneanddivine
justice4rene&divine :
i love how you word this "conquer the material world" because it doesnt mean unnecessary possesions but he needs to want to provide and continue to grow both individually, as partners, and as a group/family.
2026-06-28 07:17:18
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yvessssssssssssss0
🦆🪿🦤 she/her/hers :
can't even date down .... they get jealous and unpleasant
2026-07-23 22:44:42
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kiarawyl
kiara 🐰 | ig: kiarawyl :
my current partner is not as ambitious or as accomplished than me but he still supports me emotionally, and also does a lot of acts of services for me. i love him, but sometimes i feel like there’s some mismatch between our compatibility and i find myself wanting more than this. we have broken up once and got back together, now we’re both trying our best to make this relationship work. how do i know if he would be able to provide for me in the long term? how do i know if he is the one?
2026-06-28 17:29:02
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