@zevinclark: Some people are not addicted to misery because they love pain. They are addicted because their nervous system confused familiar suffering with survival. That is why peace can feel suspicious when chaos is all you have known. That is why help can feel threatening when pain has become part of your identity. That is why some people do not receive solutions, they interrogate them. They are not always rejecting the answer. Sometimes their body is protecting the version of them that learned how to survive without it. Healing is not just changing your thoughts. It is teaching your body that safety does not have to feel like stress, love does not have to feel like anxiety, and peace does not have to feel boring. At some point, you have to ask yourself a hard question: am I trying to get free, or am I just looking for better language to justify the prison? The scariest part about healing is realizing you may be defending the same chaos your soul is begging to escape.

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eggrollghost
Ffeno Elfa :
How do I turn it off. I just want to be zen.
2026-06-29 16:30:40
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thebekstar
thebekstar :
Ohhhhhh k. Mic drop… dang dude.
2026-06-30 19:20:42
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reneeisrising
Renee is Rising :
Used to be me. It was developed as protection from trauma, abandonment, and disappointment as a child and I struggled to release it as an adult. I was absolutely afraid of hope.
2026-06-29 17:46:31
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regina.marie72
Regina :
👏👏👏 👏👏👏👏👏👏JUSTIFICATION instead of accountability. Accountability equals responsibility and that may require the need for a change in behavior.
2026-06-27 20:39:32
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marissa.alayne
Marissa Alayne :
I found out that stress was my life and I was using a toxic form of it to move forward and get stuck... once I finally realized that stress was my motivator I found a way to have ot without ruining my life... I didn't stress about money anymore because I swapped it for doing the the dishes and making dinner at the same time... I modified my addiction to stress... instead of the stress of running late to work I forced myself to wake up earlier and have the stress of driving the speed limit. I know it sounds silly but my life has been moving forward and getting better once I realized i was in control of my definition of what stress really is.
2026-06-28 15:04:45
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_eile.en__
eileen🤎 :
Ok, now tell us how to break the loop.
2026-06-28 07:42:19
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micsteveywonder
Mike :
I just opened the phone 😭😭😭
2026-06-28 14:16:38
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user150250707
Mandy :
So how to quit this cycle 😭😭😭
2026-06-27 20:38:44
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ravioli_dirtbag
dorette :
as someone who is 17 days sober for the first time in 15 years, i needed to hear this so badly. this new normal is so uncomfortable and at times literally feels like my reality is crumbling. but i guess this is the price i gotta pay to heal a nervous system that learned safety and security only through numbing and escaping for too long. thank u❤️
2026-06-28 21:21:36
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sunlionn
sun :
No it’s much simpler than that bro. People don’t change because they don’t know how. What’s not known is not known. You can’t be something you don’t know. The pain and negativity is familiar and known.
2026-06-28 22:51:40
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winningmovesonly
Winning MO :
Literally me when sports betting smh
2026-06-30 19:40:18
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theunmutedlife
theunmutedlife :
Rumination is dangerous! It keeps you addicted to the flames of your own fire
2026-06-28 21:21:19
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snubbullavocado
not vulpix :
“Argue for your limitations, and sure enough, they’re yours.” Richard Bach, The Adventures of a Reluctant Messiah. 🫶🏾
2026-06-28 14:13:06
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jewlzypoo
Jules :
A therapist years ago told me I didn’t believe I was worthy of good things happening to me. Damnnn. She was right too 😅 thankful to have found a way out of that mentality
2026-06-30 05:04:42
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deathdual
deathdual :
my mother calls it "living in the clutch"
2026-06-30 19:41:43
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martinbamp
Martin P :
I was just thinking about this about myself
2026-06-30 19:17:24
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dakatzpjs4
dakatzpjs :
ooof I needed to hear this
2026-06-30 15:52:10
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pattykitkat
Patty St :
Survival mode is real
2026-06-29 13:14:16
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llow22
Coffee Bean :
Misery becomes a chemical routine … peace feels suspicious 🤯
2026-06-28 14:42:02
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limegreenfiesta
LimeGreenFiesta :
I’m high and you are like a prophet to me right now
2026-06-28 22:17:16
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taylorgraphix
Taylor_⫍ ⃢👁ܫ👁⃢ ⫎ :
this is what I've been complaining about to my therapist. I've been in therapy for 6 yrs now for childhood trauma n I've hit a bit of a wall. I can't quite move past my sadness n its like I identify as my sadness. it's a part of my personality it's what I know sigh.
2026-06-29 03:51:09
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robn0tbob
Rob-Not-Bob :
I held my trauma and hurt because calm and healing felt dangerous. Working on yourself is sitting in unease with a version of yourself you’ve never experienced.
2026-06-29 16:25:32
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efitmilifestyle
efitmilifestyle :
reposted after the first sentence
2026-06-28 05:18:40
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floridagraham
FloridaGraham :
Best video on the Internet thank you so much
2026-06-28 15:29:34
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