@growwithkaela: I get asked all the time why some DAs still watch them from a distance, and why others block them completely. If they’re still watching you, it’s their nervous system regulation from a safe distance. If they vanished completely, it’s likely that you saw behind their mask, and the mirror you hold up is one they’re not willing to look into. The disappearing act isn’t indifference. It’s self protection at the highest level. You didn’t lose someone who didn’t care. You lost someone who couldn’t handle how well you knew them.

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garrett1221
Garrett :
What if I blocked her on everything after she discarded
2026-08-06 02:10:22
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billy.bluetooth
FromZerotoHero :
she keeps blocking and unblocking me
2026-06-28 12:02:49
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mjbnow
Miguel :
Yeah I believe this, they feel shame so pretend you don't exist so they don't have to explain themselves
2026-08-04 22:44:03
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drivewithshakila
Shakila | Auto Advisor :
Not everyone who leaves you is an avoidant. Maybe they are not interested anymore after knowing you more.
2026-08-01 05:57:06
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elizabethencalada34
elizabethencalada34 :
He blocked me on Instagram but not on WhatsApp. Can someone explain why he did that to me
2026-06-29 17:30:36
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helenlc01
Helen :
Mine disappeared for the first few months entirely. But in the last few months, has started orbiting my socials
2026-06-28 14:40:17
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adbryant18
April 🌞 :
What if they have done both
2026-06-28 02:06:58
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hikenit1
HikenitO.G.🤛❌🤜 :
Now my nervous system is shocked, even though I uncovered the truth and accepted it as a workable relationship, it didn't matter anymore. I feel we need a support group for this
2026-06-28 09:17:56
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mrmot_
TTJNL220 :
4 months no contact, no blocking, no smoke signals, nothing…..just therapy and limerence.
2026-06-28 10:25:59
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julieve68
Julie :
he finally added me back 2 weeks ago now he just watch my stories and reacted to one video but doesn't really gave me communication 🥺
2026-06-28 19:05:14
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gusmoyses81
gusmoyses81 :
I have a question… how many people here managed to get an avoidant back ?
2026-07-06 03:43:21
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emo._.rat
emo._.rat :
What if they are kinda doing both? He doesn’t want me involved in his life but he looks at my social medias frequently, but he also doesn’t talk to anyone that is involved with me. I blocked him on TikTok because he would watch my accounts weekly. But he’s also silent like I never existed for the most part. What does that mean?
2026-08-18 18:47:03
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ninjamonkey508
khalil morales :
thanks I hate it here.
2026-06-28 13:53:27
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allisondietrich
Eliza :
Ahem Chris
2026-06-28 08:26:09
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mspblue32
mspblue32 :
I absolutely did see the side of her she doesnt show anyone. and she also told me things that she doesnt tell others. or says she doesn't anyways
2026-06-28 02:19:31
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tripmywire1
Vanexa :
I wouldn't know if I was blocked or not. I'm staying in no contact for life. I'm not going through that mental hell again.
2026-06-28 10:17:33
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squidelus
squidelus :
This makes it hurt less, ty.
2026-06-28 18:03:20
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morganaltree
Morgan Altree :
I’m not on social media and we have no common friends and he didn’t block me. So now what?
2026-07-01 10:42:54
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im_mr_ed
Symptom of being human :
And when we work at the same place it’s a whole nother level 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️
2026-06-29 21:41:24
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bosslady_trendingmodel
Boss Lady :
what if they haven't blocked you
2026-06-28 04:30:50
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corylapointe
1Lastcast :
Unfriended me on Facebook. Follows me on instagram. Wants to be friends and is angry that I said all or nothing.
2026-07-02 10:42:14
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glenjammin311
Glenjammin311 :
Really hits hard.
2026-07-01 18:50:24
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nnooxxz
Nox :
she blocked me in everything
2026-07-28 06:21:13
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samalliecat
SamAllieCat :
My profiles are all private, and I unfriended him a couple months before I finally walked away and went no-contact. Now and then, I post a mirror-post as public so he can see it… just to fuck with him 😂
2026-08-22 04:05:30
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