@the_control_code: A pastor with no data taught a generation of men that “it’s my love language” means you owe them. He answered the science without data and instead counted his sales. Look to the function explains that the harm intent never could. #coercivecontrol #thecontrolcode #fivelovelanguages #datingredflags #functionnotintent
i just reply by telling them my love language is receiving gifts
2026-06-28 02:07:35
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Princess Sar :
As a therapist, the minute this book gets brought up in session, by my clients, I immediately talk about how problematic it is.
2026-06-28 19:27:27
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RunninonEmPA :
My love language is Matriarchy.
2026-06-30 03:55:18
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bribelle87 :
physical touch doesn't mean sex though, it can be hugs and cuddling and hand holding.
2026-06-27 23:40:50
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lysamc :
Our couples therapist recommended it. I brought up my issues with it that I saw. She argued with me, that she didn’t see that at all. She and my narcissistic ex became great pals. I’m divorced now.
2026-06-30 03:30:26
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JewelryCzarina :
I’VE BEEN YELLING THIS FROM THE ROOFTOPS FOR A YEAR!!!!
2026-06-28 06:43:08
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VivianKay13 :
Someone gave me this book and I even refuse to donate it.
2026-06-30 00:07:39
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Chill_Deer :
my love language is respect
2026-06-29 11:01:15
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BreLetHerselfGo :
All Christian relationship books are written to keep women in line
2026-07-27 17:42:27
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NinaInnocentia :
Yes I read the book. Extremely problematic. I do not subscribe to this.
2026-06-28 08:04:37
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Soullessginger :
I immediately hit nope on any dating profiles with this
2026-06-29 01:37:39
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d.alexis.gone.hiking :
Finally someone points this out! 🙌👏
2026-06-28 01:10:09
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twinkb420 :
SOO GLAD SOMEONE is finally talking about this!!!??
2026-06-28 14:22:04
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CDCanada77 🇨🇦 :
my love language is being free and having human rights
2026-07-10 14:42:46
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Maybebaby81 :
When I was dating and was asked what my love language was I went into a similar rant. Lost a lot of matches that way and I’m okay with that. The truth is that relationships need all types of love and support to thrive and it has to go both ways.
2026-06-30 15:04:29
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🗡️Seeking🔻Hilarity🧚🏼♀️ :
yep. when I was on dating apps and saw that immediately no lol
2026-06-28 17:24:46
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migratorybirdtreatyactof1918 :
My love language is gift getting specifically cash. Acts of service in cash. And physical touch by a Gift Certificate to a local manicure pedicure massage place.
2026-06-29 16:40:31
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JewelsSpark :
I argued this with a couples therapist while in woth my ex. She wasnt very helpful
2026-06-30 22:17:58
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Rain :
I have believed this for years
2026-06-28 14:56:48
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aussie470 :
I have been saying this for years.
2026-06-28 10:50:28
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Dr. Sam | Psyche & Politics :
More people need to hear this!
2026-06-28 04:17:28
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Weezer 🐦🔥🇵🇸🔻🏳️🌈🌎 :
thank you for speaking on this.
2026-06-28 11:54:05
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Darcie.Darling :
LOUDER
2026-06-28 16:08:41
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Popleyvintagepdx :
DANG! This one completely slipped passed me, I was pretty far from connecting those dots. Thank you for bringing this to my attention and will forever never again fall into the love language trap. I appreciate the work and awareness.
2026-06-29 05:09:47
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Heidi H :
I’ve been screaming this for years!!
2026-06-28 20:52:14
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