@thelisakays: Replying to @ColoGurl36 What if you’re not hard to understand or hear? What if you’re being willfully ignored? And remember, it also doesn’t matter. Impact over intent. What would happen if you considered this communication path unproductive and moved on with your life? #MentalHealth #narcissisticabuserecovery #overthinking #women #dismissiveavoidant
When I started screaming, that's when I knew, because I promised myself I'd never let anyone take me there. the right ppl do not bring the worst out of you.
2026-06-30 02:12:44
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yarronrod :
There is a double bind feature to this as well in some dynamics. If you’re not emoting, it’s not serious and if you are emoting, you’re being emotional and it’s not serious.
2026-06-30 12:26:39
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Daria 🎧 la-la laa la-lah ♎️ :
I've started saying outloud "If you don't find the things I have to say important, then you will be missing out on life. Cuz I'm not waiting."
2026-07-02 16:42:44
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Wendy | GLP-1 :
I allowed myself to spend YEARS being angry and asking for the same things over and over when I should’ve just left. My kids grew up seeing and hearing me communicate in ways that were way less than ideal. I just kept hoping he would change
2026-06-29 22:18:45
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user3761144750424 :
I wish I had these skills when I was a young woman.
2026-06-30 01:30:40
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PeculiarCrow :
it's like he didn't hear anything until I went into a screaming fit.
2026-06-29 23:26:23
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PrincessOblivious :
I've realized I can say anything I want in any way I want to my husband because he doesn't hear it anyway. nothing penetrates anyway so I don't censor myself at all.
2026-06-30 14:25:41
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Filmmaker & Dream Launcher 💫 :
I tend to get quieter and/or silent, turning inward when I'm not being heard. This forces them to lean in and/or ask me a question. But if they truly don't care, I can quietly move on w/o getting frustrated and emotional.
2026-06-30 09:51:17
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❤️Anna❤️ :
Yes
2026-07-02 04:51:28
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CassandraZ :
I remember you talking about screen time for kids is there any way you would make a video on your opinion on this?
2026-06-30 08:20:46
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Mariz The Artist :
TEXTBOOK!
2026-06-29 23:13:11
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SolaceSoulless :
Nailed it as usual
2026-06-30 21:16:48
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ZenobiaEleanorFoxhound 🇨🇦 :
This is so timely. Thank you.
2026-06-30 02:41:36
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LindsMme :
Mine said to me the other day, “if you’re not going to leave me over this, why are you talking to me about it.” I have 2 little kids and feel so stuck.
2026-07-01 02:03:16
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Laura 🦓♾️🐙🏳️🌈🍉 :
Your background song for this video could be “Begged” by Olivia Rodrigo.
2026-06-30 23:48:58
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cll :
yes
2026-06-30 04:49:09
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Christina Gliha :
Thank you
2026-07-01 12:46:51
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Oracle Scents :
very good video
2026-07-01 01:34:18
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cll :
They are committed to not understanding you
2026-06-30 04:50:21
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thmswlkr :
it's like when someone doesn't understand the language you're speaking so you just repeat yourself in the same language but louder.
2026-06-30 05:40:52
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bunny1kenobi2 :
what do i do if this is my parents that programmed this into me? they never listened to me... I dont even have a normal understanding of me over communicating and being taken advantage of. is there a line? what are the indicators?
2026-06-30 16:58:13
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Kaysee :
This is what i think when that happens...do not cast pearls before swine. If they do not listen, I do not speak. my time is far too valuable.
2026-07-02 07:09:19
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whats.n.a.name :
You just described how my “relationship” with “God” is going, begging, screaming, crying out, crashing out, constantly repeating myself, etc, I’m at a point in my life where I could careless about humans, everyone of them treat me like you described (I’m 52)
2026-07-01 17:08:12
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OkCityChick :
And this is why we're enraged.
2026-06-30 22:02:38
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Dr. Shola 🇺🇸🇬🇧🇳🇬🇬🇾 :
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
2026-06-30 18:30:07
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