@rewiredlovelife: Dating an avoidant can leave you with confusion, breadcrumbs, mixed signals, blame, inconsistency, chaos, ghosting, anxiety, a situationship, and sometimes even a trauma bond. And the part that hurts the most? More often than not, they are aware of these patterns. They know they struggle with consistency. They know they pull away when intimacy becomes real. They know they shut down instead of communicating. They know they give just enough closeness to keep you emotionally attached, but not enough safety to make you feel secure. And instead of being honest about what they are incapable of giving, they let you hope. They let you attach. They let you believe this time might be different. Then when the relationship asks for accountability, reassurance, repair, and emotional responsibility, they retreat and leave you carrying the damage. That is not your fault. Do not let their emotional incapability make you doubt your needs. Do not shrink yourself to fit inside someone else’s limitations. Do not convince yourself you are too much just because they could only love you in fragments. You were not asking for too much. You were asking for secure love from someone who knew they could not give it. Book a Clarity Call through the link in my bio. 🤍 #avoidantattachment #anxiousattachment #breakuphealing #selfworth #emotionallyunavailable

✨Stardust✨ :

And now I avoid an avoidant ✌ I am out of that circle thank God 💜

💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾 :

Anybody knows if they end up being married and being committed ??

Madison Perkins | MFT :

Overfunctioning 1000000x. Not ever worth it

Cafecito :

Never again. 💪❤️

Veles :

Omg Americans love to categorize people under few fansy words like avoident anxious avoident, dismissive etc. Honey all man can't be put under 3 words, you don't have clue what each one thinks or have been through, it's annoying

nh17196 :

All of them 🥺 hit me so deeply

Roxymohd :

Mines ghosted me 4 days after our date ..before that it was 2 months just being friends ..he's a total mess 🙄

life of a dark empath 🩷💞❤️ :

Exactly

@imyouramrie❦ :

HAHAHA i got my receipt 4 days ago

KingofKingz :

Gaslighting

Norah | Pilates Instructor :

Times a gazillion

Lilith1977 :

All

Steve Cole Life Coach :

Always in an "absolute", I've coached many anxious avoidant relationships to success. Understanding ourselves is the start.

usmc34 :

Spot On, enough said

xyznaa :

over and over again

Celia Susana 🤍 :

Add Insomnia

Anna :

I don’t understand how or why they got married in the first place. And what caused a divorce. Especially if they said they don’t like attention being drawn towards them and not being affectionate person. That’s blowing my mind

user8628812350791 :

and a lot of cats

Amelia 🪶🧿⚖️ :

Anxious attachments or another avoidant - Secure

Jeremy Forsyth :

Could I be your next avoidant partner?

Inamra_37💖💖💖 :

My avoidant don’t like the way I avoid him 😌🙃✌🏽

queendarkness888 :

I’m out

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Factd

MIRKA :

Spot on

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