@pastorlandonchase: Your marriage comes first. Your new family comes first. And sometimes protecting that means making hard calls that others won't understand at the time, but will thank you for later. Go make your own memories. Plant your own flag. Build your own traditions. That's not selfish — that's stewardship of your marriage. Best decision we ever made.
Your spouse comes first. The family you create with your spouse comes first.
2026-08-05 16:55:36
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mariacastillo3945 :
I agree with you Pedro Pascal
2026-07-05 17:15:44
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Britney Lynn :
I dread every holiday due to his family
2026-07-05 19:36:37
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iamjasonbarry :
Goes for both sides
2026-08-04 17:50:39
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GHHS1986 :
As a mother in law, she’s 1000000% correct. I’m the extended family now. And as a daughter in law who suffered because my husband chose his mom’s need over his wife (me) I make sure my kids know, their partners and their family come before all others.
2026-07-05 21:56:08
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Ellie 🪐🌙✨ :
We moved across the country, that’s how much I ain’t wanna deal with it anymore
2026-07-06 15:02:48
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zachcaldwell817 :
Me and my wife’s first thanksgiving 2 weeks after we got married was just the two of us in our small apartment. One of the best thanksgivings Ive ever had
2026-07-05 20:24:04
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97% caffeine :
My mother did not like it when I told her that my husband is now my immediate family. Decided not to talk to me for over four months
2026-07-10 18:25:45
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William Austin :
Hot take. (And it really shouldn’t be) parents on BOTH sides immediately become EXTENDED FAMILY the second you say “I do”. Your first and only responsibility is to your spouse and your children. Period. If you then have capacity and the desire to show deference and put in effort with parents who respect you, your spouse, and your kids, then pop off.
2026-07-16 11:52:06
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SpikeTowers :
Louder for the MILs in the back!!
2026-07-12 18:49:47
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✌🏼✌🏼 :
Yep new family is the nuclear family and parents and sibs are now extended family
2026-07-05 20:00:55
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Charlotte Province :
This!! Because why are mother in laws acting like they are their sons wife and second guessing every choice the wife makes with there kids!? “A man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife” “they are one”
2026-07-20 12:15:48
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JJ16 :
His mom has a massive grip on family holidays. One time we were with my family & she called him to ask where he was bc she was serving dinner at 7pm and was going to withhold until he arrived, he literally left right away. I should have taken that as my sign…
2026-07-13 15:26:54
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Lauren Simmons :
Everyone on both sides recognizes this but my husbands mom. I’m working on it 😭
2026-07-07 15:32:59
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finnyoot :
We visited friends in St Pete!
2026-07-06 13:58:56
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TRASHRODS_334 :
bro lowkey she spitten
2026-06-29 13:29:37
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HeatherGeisler :
100%
2026-07-05 07:54:05
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Melbert :
Exactly
2026-06-28 20:56:24
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Renee Abouttime Jone :
Facts
2026-07-05 16:10:29
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Scroll:9293$! :
My thing is when do you set this boundary? I feel like you should really start setting it when you’re getting serious with your partner the first and second Thanksgiving or Christmas holidays you know you’re still getting to know people trying to figure out who celebrates what what holidays are bigger deal for each family but I feel like once you start getting more serious with your partner and you’re starting to go down that path being together 2+ years you guys are clearly headed towards an engagement or marriage then I feel like that’s the time that you should start setting boundaries and being like hey this is you know what we’re gonna do for holidays going forward. I’m in that awkward stage where it’s clear that my boyfriend and I are gonna have a future together but when it comes to events, his family wants him somewhere. My family wants me somewhere and we also have our families not living in the same town so just becomes a little bit messy.
2026-07-05 23:51:05
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Trang Pham :
My baby comes in December and I’m so excited to be quarantined for the holidays 🥳
2026-07-06 16:11:03
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Mybeautiful3 :
Absolutely!!!
2026-06-29 12:43:36
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