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Chris :
Hey. I want you to know that taking care of a partner with a chronic illness gives us purpose. Our love is an act of service. It keeps us going. It teaches us to be strong for the people we love. It reminds us that life is fragile, that we should be gentle, and that protecting the ones we love matters. I know I might lose my girl one day, but while I have her, I just want to love her, take care of her, and be her safe place. If she ever leaves this world, I'll be able to say I had the greatest adventure of my life. I'll mourn her for the rest of my life, because no one else could ever compare.
2026-07-09 06:01:02
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Enderbro3300🔻 :
as someone on the other side of this. we love you. we understand that you're not choosing it, and honestly I enjoy it. how blessed am I to be able to give the person I love an easier life? to help support them and care for them? to give them what little relief I'm able to? how lucky am I? I love my partner so much and they feel the same way as you but I promise you it's ok. it is a burden for sure, but by god I wouldn't want them bearing that burden alone! humans are meant to lean on each other and there shouldn't be a limit to that. I hope that makes sense.
2026-07-13 14:32:30
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Susanna 🐀 :
I know I have a time limit on being loved
2026-07-14 17:13:52
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MissRooster3 :
I never realised that in sickness and in health meant I was the sickness and he was the health! I have been fighting for better treatment that I know is out there just so I can have some better days for him! Our bodies can be so cruel! ❤️
2026-07-09 13:35:55
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Pottymouth :
Fellow man/carer of a chronically ill partner, and can confirm this fills our cup. I love taking care of her, and i always will.
2026-07-16 01:29:51
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🐝 nataliasultana ✨ :
I totally relate. the guilt of being a burden and not being able to be my active self is terrible🥺
2026-07-09 11:44:43
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aragothamart :
I’m struggling with the idea that I’m chronically ill.
2026-07-14 06:13:57
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Dan 🏴 :
No one speaks about being the partner that supports them everyday and night, 24/7 monitoring, helping with hypos, waking up to the alarms and having something ready. We do not have it worse than the person with the cronic illness in ANY way. But it is tough. I wouldnt have it any other way though. No one asked for this, if you love someone, youll suffer with them. If you have an illness, it isnt your fault, you didnt ask for this. As a partner, I chose this. I will take care of my partner until my last breath and i am glad its me
2026-07-14 23:32:10
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💜BlessedLife💜 :
On my bad flare days and my husband is home I tell him sorry maybe divorce me and find a healthy wife this is my life now. Sad part I went from healthy working full time over time, taking trips every weekend, going shopping basically living a good life to bam in bed most days hurting, crying, sick over night. It’s depressing and I’m too young for this 😡💔
2026-07-13 13:44:16
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court :
hello ! just know i’m on the other side of this and my person is worth every second of exhaustion and restriction that his life comes with. it sucks but we go through it together and nothing is his fault in any aspect of my mind. i hope this reassures you a bit 💜
2026-06-28 19:38:18
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Kayte Smith :
I’ve said to my partner so many times on bad days I feel like he’s going to regret being with me and I’ll be too much and he’s going to resent me one day. He tells me I’m dumb and he would never. We’ve been together 8 years and he’s awesome, but it still terrifies me🥲
2026-07-10 03:37:13
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Adri Montano :
Omg…. It’s terrible. The guilt.
2026-07-12 01:43:17
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Katelynne 💫🩷 :
The scary part is feeling as if there is a dead line on how long I'm going to be loved.
2026-07-16 22:04:36
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BasedImpreza :
Honestly, cause I feel like Im always getting in the way
2026-07-13 19:07:04
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Sophie :
I feel so bad. I’m not the person I was when he told me he loved me. He still does but I often wonder why. But then I remember if it was the other way around I’d do the same, doesn’t make it easier though 💕
2026-07-09 21:58:34
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✨kate’s cozy coven✨ :
I hate it here 🥲 like I’m sorry, I just wanna get better.
2026-06-28 18:55:22
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Lydia :
This is such an important point. I feel so unbelievably lucky to have such a supportive partner, but there’s always that thought in your mind that they could have such a better life without you. The guilt is horrific and so real. I’m with you 🥺
2026-07-10 20:47:10
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drewfanney :
What she doesn’t understand is she’s not a burden. That I would carry her through hell and Harlem just to be near her. That I knew what I was getting when I signed up. That I would do it again in a heartbeat. That she is my freakin world. That she doesn’t look weak in my eyes. That when she falls apart in her eyes, I want to be there to protect her from the world.
2026-07-14 14:21:28
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Charlotte :
Lost count on how many times I’ve been saying “I’m sorry” to my hubby🥲
2026-07-09 19:12:07
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Laissez Phir Clyde Crèos :
My partner and I are both disabled but their disability is more dynamic than mine so when we got married we said “in sickness and in sickerness, cause we both know there’s no hope of health” -as the ‘more disabled partner’ I relate to this video heavily. We can’t even go to pride anymore because my seizures have gotten too reactive 😭
2026-06-28 18:59:33
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Lilith :
I love my fiance so much, but also I hate it so much that he has to do almost everything for me, sometimes Ill just not ask for his help getting in bed and fall asleep in the hallway cause I just feel so horrible having to get helped in bed
2026-07-08 10:24:37
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haley :
I can relate and I just want you to know that you are doing amazing. Even when you cry, even when you have to rely on others for help, even when you’re in pain. Keep going, you got this. Hoping for you to find relief 💕
2026-06-28 18:52:42
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faithmamaj08 :
I am blessed with an incredible husband who has a quiet strength and devotion…and yet the guilt builds with every new or worsening symptom. I am constantly fighting the thought that he would be better off without me and able to soar to his full potential without a chronically ill wife holding him back. He misses out on so much…I hate it
2026-07-12 20:03:06
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Eevee The Great :
im lucky because my boyfriend really does care about me and just wants to make my life easier. however I feel tremendous guilt so I do everything I can to help him whenever possible with my limitations, like making him cups of tea, getting clothes out for him while he showers, when im up to it, doing the clothes washing. I love him dearly
2026-07-10 08:54:49
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ellegaitor :
I just feel invisible tbh 😔. I think everyone has gotten used to me being in pain and poorly to the point no one notices anymore when I’m having a really bad day, I try to tell them and I either get yeah I feel tired today or yeah I feel achey. I’m thinking my tired isn’t your tired my pain isn’t your aches you seem to be able to still move and go out and do things I can’t. It feels like I’m not heard anymore because my pain and poorlyness has become so routine to them and normal that they forget I’m living it. I feel so unseen and unheard and invisible and alone x
2026-07-10 22:55:42
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