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🇨🇦 Ang³L :
"What I want matters just as much as what he wants." So when does he get what he wants?
2026-08-27 21:18:25
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Lwilli22 :
I was waiting for the part where you go into detail about how mad he got,what he did etc and how you responded cause youre growing and yadayada. But his vantage point never came up and it dawned on me that was the point and I still got work to do. This story was about you and how you respond to issues
2026-06-29 13:11:55
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KRS 🇺🇸🇨🇦 :
Chatgpt is causing a revolution
2026-06-30 16:24:22
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Jenn_n_tonic 🇨🇦 :
“His discomfort is not my problem to fix” this needs to be my new mantra.
2026-06-29 01:00:04
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Kelly Pierce :
They honestly have no idea how much we do this
2026-06-29 04:30:22
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Dee :
Being around someone who is always irritated is so unpleasant
2026-06-30 17:13:22
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DestinyForever :
Is divorce just not an option? This sounds so exhausting still. You’re still doing emotional labor thinking about it.
2026-06-29 14:45:55
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bonnyonmaui :
today at the beach I said I was getting cold. He said he wasn't. I got out of the water and went to rinse off instead of sticking it out. I felt empowered and he accused me of being in a bad mood. I can see there is so much being present and really noticing to this... a life of conditioning is hard to break. 💪thank you for your series, its really helpful.
2026-06-28 23:53:22
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Lucygoosebumps :
I use to give my partner the better looking plate. I stop because I realized that he wasn’t even asking for the better plate and i deserve to treat myself with as much detail and care as I do for him. I choose myself more as a result.
2026-06-29 19:46:06
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Robbie_Shannon :
Hyper vigilence is exhausting! I do this with everyone and am struggling to stop it!
2026-08-27 17:03:01
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1022nickname :
this level of sensory articulation is so helpful
2026-06-29 21:03:21
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Drey :
Managing him ain’t yo responsibility sis
2026-08-26 02:42:10
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Abi :
omg the constant surveillance of his emotions, his energy, his moods, it's EXHAUSTING! NEVER AGAIN!
2026-06-29 22:14:59
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Melissa Arnett :
This is growth, baby!
2026-08-27 06:03:59
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Janalynn Wood :
Oh not babe this is BIG for me 👀 please continue to call this behavior out because it’s second nature and I’m just now realizing!!!!!!!!! I’m shook
2026-08-26 18:39:12
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LiL LiT One :
Good for you!
2026-08-27 15:11:12
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Maris Fern :
My therapist reminds me, why is his feelings more important than mine all the time. I matter too! It’s so hard to change but little steps are making me feel more empowered.
2026-06-29 03:35:27
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cruisegirl :
I started de-centering my husband and he accused me of being mean. lol, dude, I have been matching your energy!
2026-06-29 13:44:38
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happydogs181 :
Hyper vigilance from childhood is the gift that just keeps on giving
2026-07-02 18:22:32
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Mother of Crows :
He seems like a lot of work.
2026-06-29 17:21:50
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hbubble :
God I used to do this and eventually it led to me getting irritated with him, which lead to arguments and a ruined outing. But when I stopped caring and just enjoyed my time, he keeps his complaints to himself and we have a much better time.
2026-06-28 23:51:37
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Tanya Watson | Artist | ACEOs :
Ok so part of me thought - but what’s wrong with just being considerate of the other person but then I realized he almost never thinks this way when the situation is reversed which I guess unconsciously has created me just feeling annoyed and disappointed. I like being considerate but I also want to be treated that way too. But I do also want to be able to not have to adjust or as you say - brace myself for the reactions of annoyance or impatience- it’s exhausting.
2026-06-29 04:13:50
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🌟 :
This happens alot for us. This time, I chose to eat at a restaurant *I* wanted instead of what *he* wanted. He refused to come along, and instead drove off in my car and stranded me. Sticking with my choice was worth it
2026-06-29 03:45:57
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_justheretobeentertained :
I’m not even married and already doing this
2026-06-29 03:42:26
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Eep 🖤 :
“Life through him rather than experiencing it myself” just blew my mind 😳 thank you for this series
2026-06-29 15:20:09
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