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Lwilli22 :
I was waiting for the part where you go into detail about how mad he got,what he did etc and how you responded cause youre growing and yadayada. But his vantage point never came up and it dawned on me that was the point and I still got work to do. This story was about you and how you respond to issues
2026-06-29 13:11:55
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DestinyForever :
Is divorce just not an option? This sounds so exhausting still. You’re still doing emotional labor thinking about it.
2026-06-29 14:45:55
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ASTROLOCA :
Are we married to tge same guy???😳
2026-10-22 13:04:56
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Jenn_n_tonic 🇨🇦 :
“His discomfort is not my problem to fix” this needs to be my new mantra.
2026-06-29 01:00:04
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bonnyonmaui :
today at the beach I said I was getting cold. He said he wasn't. I got out of the water and went to rinse off instead of sticking it out. I felt empowered and he accused me of being in a bad mood. I can see there is so much being present and really noticing to this... a life of conditioning is hard to break. 💪thank you for your series, its really helpful.
2026-06-28 23:53:22
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Kelly Pierce :
They honestly have no idea how much we do this
2026-06-29 04:30:22
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Dee :
Being around someone who is always irritated is so unpleasant
2026-06-30 17:13:22
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_justheretobeentertained :
I’m not even married and already doing this
2026-06-29 03:42:26
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1022nickname :
this level of sensory articulation is so helpful
2026-06-29 21:03:21
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Lucygoosebumps :
I use to give my partner the better looking plate. I stop because I realized that he wasn’t even asking for the better plate and i deserve to treat myself with as much detail and care as I do for him. I choose myself more as a result.
2026-06-29 19:46:06
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Tanya Watson | Artist | ACEOs :
Ok so part of me thought - but what’s wrong with just being considerate of the other person but then I realized he almost never thinks this way when the situation is reversed which I guess unconsciously has created me just feeling annoyed and disappointed. I like being considerate but I also want to be treated that way too. But I do also want to be able to not have to adjust or as you say - brace myself for the reactions of annoyance or impatience- it’s exhausting.
2026-06-29 04:13:50
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hbubble :
God I used to do this and eventually it led to me getting irritated with him, which lead to arguments and a ruined outing. But when I stopped caring and just enjoyed my time, he keeps his complaints to himself and we have a much better time.
2026-06-28 23:51:37
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Abi :
omg the constant surveillance of his emotions, his energy, his moods, it's EXHAUSTING! NEVER AGAIN!
2026-06-29 22:14:59
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Mother of Crows :
He seems like a lot of work.
2026-06-29 17:21:50
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Maris Fern :
My therapist reminds me, why is his feelings more important than mine all the time. I matter too! It’s so hard to change but little steps are making me feel more empowered.
2026-06-29 03:35:27
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happydogs181 :
Hyper vigilance from childhood is the gift that just keeps on giving
2026-07-02 18:22:32
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Eep 🖤 :
“Life through him rather than experiencing it myself” just blew my mind 😳 thank you for this series
2026-06-29 15:20:09
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cruisegirl :
I started de-centering my husband and he accused me of being mean. lol, dude, I have been matching your energy!
2026-06-29 13:44:38
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Little Spark of Good :
Thank you for sharing these specific examples. I see myself in your posts and I appreciate the perspectives.
2026-06-28 23:47:45
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Tiffydanger :
I have stopped telling my husband when people invite us places. Because he almost always never wants to go. And when I basically force him to go I have to spend the entire day walking on eggshells so something doesn’t piss him off and make him change his mind, and then the car ride to the outing is usually dead silent because he is brooding. He will usually have a good time once he is there but he doesn’t realize it is usually because I am spending the entire time making sure he is having a good time and feeling included, which in the end means I’m not having a good time because I’m babysitting. So now I just go alone so I can actually enjoy myself and leave him at home playing video games where he actually wants to be.
2026-06-29 17:14:01
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Ana :
I wish I could do this but as an empath and always lived in a hyper vigilant mode and a people pleaser it’s almost impossible to check in with myself before assessing someone’s mood. I need to relearn life 😩🙏 you’re giving me hope
2026-07-01 12:10:14
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GAIA ✨️🤞🏼 :
My conclusion is that men are benefitting from our maternal instinct to soothe our babies and kin. We use these same tactics to calm a baby or help a toddler. This is what we do as women. However, it took me having a baby to realize this something we don't do for adults which is why men don't do it for us. It's unnatural. This is also why sisterhoods are where we feel we can best pour into these instincts and feelings and get them in return. Hence why they are not AS misused around other women.
2026-07-28 16:40:57
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jen :
This is very important and I think very common in marriage. Since I’ve been watching your posts I find I am more checked in with my needs and desires. Ty
2026-06-28 23:43:46
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Janelle Holm :
All of this deconstruction in thinking and reacting is SO IMPORTANT. Thank you for sharing!!
2026-06-29 00:25:38
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DiamondDivaT :
Wow these husbands really messes us wives up! I’m OVER it!
2026-08-20 07:14:09
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