I didn't expect Julian Voss Codex to be this psychologically deep.
2026-07-28 15:44:58
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Siphoesihle :
been both, the only time I genuinely felt desired was when I focused on spark more than safety.
tried being the safety guy last year, guess what, I have no interest in being that guy ever again
2026-06-29 11:59:52
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King Tega :
60% spark and 40% safety.
2026-06-29 19:29:28
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MrWydra :
she broke up the moment i tried to get some of my life back
2026-06-29 09:31:55
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hsn :
I don't disagree at all but aren't long term "healthy" relationships mostly about safety with a little bit of spark? Say 70/30 or 80/20? Even a 50/50 split feels like some work to keep "the spark"
2026-06-28 18:44:48
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Richryloporter :
Brothers he is right never be the fall back guy if I’m not option one adios
2026-06-29 00:32:04
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Ameer Alsaraf :
Thanks Mazraoui
2026-06-30 12:34:39
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Ajibola Oki :
It’s better to be spark only as well
2026-06-29 10:18:59
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kyddrush :
The safety guy is just for show
2026-06-28 21:29:12
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The Village Ghost :
thought you were gonna roast OSHA :/
2026-06-30 04:05:54
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S :
And as always high quality content has almost no attention here
2026-06-28 22:29:42
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BKZ :
Damn i wasn’t thinking you talking about construction safety.
2026-07-01 01:30:40
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Mighty Bassey :
Be BOTH 👌👌👌
2026-06-28 18:36:07
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Rozeexplore :
I ain’t giving shii no more I’m done man 😔
2026-06-30 02:12:40
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mohanad :
I thought he was talking about safety officer's in work place
2026-06-30 06:05:08
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Gimmli :
its the Balance. everytime the Balance
2026-06-29 07:56:07
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Jeff Hubbard :
OK so question, how do I become more of a spark guy?
2026-06-29 08:28:32
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quintonbelcher974 :
Listen to this guy. He knows exactly wtf he talking bout!
2026-06-29 08:45:22
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Bruno Henriques :
Unfortunately you are true because I was the safety guy and both of them left me…
2026-06-29 00:01:14
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Brammy :
Man this came to me at the right moment, i learnt it the hard way
2026-06-29 17:39:23
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frenchy :
I was both, then became the emotional guy who's well being was tied to her emotional state. we were "good" but I was hyper vigilant of small changes she was making, weight loss, becoming more distant, and that caused me to seek validation else where. She left me, I started therapy, and then I realized all the things I had lost about myself in the relationship. Things I never would've caved on, boundaries I never would've allowed to be crossed... but here we are. Single, relearning myself, still full of spark, but rebuilding my boundaries and sense of self.
2026-06-29 16:44:02
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Peter :
Can you guys help me understand what this means? Im equating safety guy to what a “nice guy” is. I don’t believe i’ve been in this position because I’ve been desired before, but I genuinely try to be kind, but not to the point of being a pushover.
2026-06-29 16:47:14
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