Abefroman
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Chambeaux :
I be expecting people to be me. They never are.
2026-06-29 12:34:30
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sondradotcom :
I remind myself that all unnecessary suffering comes from an unwillingness to accept reality.
2026-06-29 10:24:58
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alicioliofficial :
Radical acceptance saves so much unnecessary grief.
2026-06-29 00:29:18
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therealtoxictruthtalks :
Detachment isn’t giving up on people. It’s giving up the fantasy that they’ll become who you need them to be.
2026-06-29 16:54:57
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JK :
Yesss my therapist put this into a metaphorical phrase — “stop looking for bread at the ace hardware store”.. it has changed my life
2026-06-29 01:15:15
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𝓒𝓸𝓾𝓰𝓱𝔂𝓣𝓲𝓶𝓮𝓮🍃💨 :
“You deserve what you tolerate” and I never recovered from hearing that.
2026-06-29 16:07:34
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Amari🌟 :
As a secure person, I would also frame basic needs / bare minimum as standards and not expectations. I don’t expect anything of anyone. I just observe and see that they don’t meet those standards. Once I see that, I accept and leave.
2026-06-28 20:57:01
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Rihanna'sbabydaddy :
What hurt me was seeing this person was absolutely capable of meeting the expectations I had, they just chose not to do it for me. The reason I knew they could meet my expectations was because I seen them meet it for other people. Actually, they exceeded my expectations with other people.
2026-06-29 03:44:31
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Jeawok Media :
When people tell you who they are, believe them.
2026-06-29 17:22:34
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Christo_isms(Bozos version) :
I expect nothing and am still wildly disappointed.
2026-06-29 16:54:56
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Redd :
Expectation is the root of all heartache.
2026-06-29 15:39:53
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Ethiopia❤️🔥 :
it's such a relief when you expect nothing. detachment allows you to enjoy the moment without the emotional punishment.
2026-06-29 02:25:35
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ToyotaRolla90 :
🗣💯‼️
2026-06-29 14:24:40
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Leo ☽︎. :
I mastered detachment now i am struggling to be in a relationship lol
2026-06-29 18:14:01
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dewyndelious9 :
Standards! Accept what is and decide how you want to respond
2026-06-29 00:42:44
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jerseygirlonfilm :
Mind you..this can be about your parents!
2026-06-29 02:27:53
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rhodyentrepreneur :
People suck
2026-06-29 00:37:37
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beatboxchad :
it gets pretty lonely when you get brutally honest about this, and that's a grieving process.
2026-06-29 23:59:49
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Leah Ortiz :
Dont give someone a role they can’t play. Put people in boxes, this is an acquaintance, this person is my best friend, this is a work friend I can have lunch with sometimes. Etc etc
2026-07-04 17:58:49
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LiviBear 💗 Twitch Streamer :
I just don't get how reaching out and caring about someone is asking too much :/ for soooo many people
2026-06-30 13:24:13
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Herding Cats :
Is easy to be a good parent. It’s easy to be a good spouse. It’s easy to be a good friend. It’s easy to be a good sibling .
2026-06-29 10:37:10
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skye 🌿🧚🏼✨ :
i’ve been told i burn bridges too easily but if you’re showing me a pattern of behavior and i feel like something’s off… i’m cutting YOU off. it’s really that simple. became really good at this after becoming a mom especially. i just don’t have patience for relationships that aren’t reciprocal!
2026-06-29 17:15:15
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Nastasha :
But I have to cut them off. Is that a bad thing?
2026-06-29 13:41:38
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Jacquette Sparkles :
My therapist told me to lower my expectations
2026-07-01 03:00:43
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Hope Creamer :
Yessssss and I’m so bad at it bro I just keep hurting my own feelings 😭😭😭
2026-06-28 19:57:00
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