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penthesillia
penthesillia🇨🇦 :
Mom should not have said anything to the family.
2026-06-28 21:49:18
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kristallazz16
Sonics red shoes #1 fan :
just from the title, nta 😭 you dont owe anyone your ORGANS?? regardless of the role they played in your life
2026-06-28 21:13:53
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__lepssz
Lepa tuautu :
NTA (I’m a kidney/pancreas transplant recipient) that’s such a big ask and it’s a huge risk anything can happen during surgery as well, they should be using the “he did this and that for you” card
2026-07-05 00:14:52
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mum_ify
Mumify :
okay Kidney transplant- healing is harder on the donor not guaranteed it won't reject his age is a factor it's limiting to have 1 kidney
2026-06-29 14:44:31
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kellycostello112098
KCsoRandom :
When it comes to things like this. You have to ask yourself, can you live with yourself if the person died?
2026-06-30 07:21:05
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midsummertimesadness
Kate Tastrophe :
I don't think my dad would even allow one of his kids to give him a kidney tbh.
2026-06-29 19:20:07
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yokaiyankee91
YokaiYankee91 :
Compatible ≠ the step dad's body won't reject it.
2026-06-29 05:11:16
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peli_ddraig
Peli_Ddraig🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿 :
If you’re ever forced in to this position tell the testing team, they will list you as unsuitable.
2026-06-29 12:23:26
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veruca.salt64
Veruca Salt :
Family members can be part of a kidney exchange. Being compatible is not the only way for someone to get a kidney
2026-06-29 03:07:24
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bonusambulance
bonusambulance :
he shouldn't have said anything to the mom 😭😭😭
2026-06-29 19:30:35
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bikatebush
garfield of funnie :
weary ≠ wary
2026-07-05 01:29:31
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im.megs.renee
Megan :) :
My dad has kidney disease and I learned my blood type and found out I could never donate to him. And he said he wouldn’t let me anyways in case I got anything from him. But the big thing is- no one ever made me feel like I’d have to
2026-07-02 04:04:52
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kumariis_
Floff/ris :
You don’t owe your organs to anyone 😭 wth
2026-07-02 03:39:57
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nursejenesis3
NurseJenesis3 :
Paired exchange. I’m a former transplant nurse, we did them all the time.
2026-06-29 05:42:41
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delicioussandra
DeliciousSandra :
that is awesome! I didn't know they had offers like that
2026-06-29 10:17:44
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maymayday123
👒🔻𓂆🍉 :
They still can donate through the exchange process if they want it so much. They are too much eager to call op out but that’s a lot to do
2026-06-30 12:59:21
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camelia7140
Camelia :
Also, there something called domino transplant, so they search patients who are not compatible and try to match them with other patients in the same situation, so they both (sometimes more peopl) get a match
2026-07-01 02:37:21
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liazabala2
BUGt95 :
nta
2026-06-29 21:42:20
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mizumi_chan04
Mizumi-Chan :
I regularly have to take ibuprofen for health reasons 😅
2026-07-03 10:46:00
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w.paracosm
Paracosm 🇨🇦 :
Pretty sure the hospital would be forced to cancel if they found out he was being pressured into the surgery. I think they actually make the donor speak to a hospital therapist beforehand considering how serious the decision is.
2026-06-29 00:55:34
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aikonecrosis
Aiko • 𓆰𓆪 PREDEBUT 𓆰𓆪 :
As someone that actually has kidney disease and needs a new one, people don't understand the sacrifice that something like that is. Firstly, even if they are compatible they still might not give it to him simply because there could be issues the son has that he needs that second kidney for. Not to mention once you lose that second kidney you need to live the rest of your life like you have CKD (change your diet, lifestyle, etc). Plus his step dad's body could reject it at any time even if it was compatible.
2026-06-28 23:36:28
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itsallgs
🇨🇦 Gigi :
Removing an organ is major surgery
2026-06-28 21:30:12
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nickyatkins1881
🍁Nicky1881 🇨🇦 :
Those who are attacking him should sign up to donate to a stranger
2026-06-28 21:40:35
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faeven
Faeven :
The step-dad provided a future for him. Going through with the transplant puts that future in jeopardy. An offspring's future shouldn't be put in danger to make an elder live longer.
2026-06-29 07:58:39
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deedeeevans79
Dee-Dee :
1. Being a match is only part of the process 2. The donor has to have a complete medical exam. With several requirements to meet. ex: Family medical history 2. Donor's medical history 3. Blood sugar levels 4. Blood pressure levels, Cholesterol levels 5. The health of the kidney. 3. A complete mental evaluation has to take place. IF there is ANY doubt they will NIT allow donation. 4. The donor has a longer recuperation period, has more chances of infections and the second kidney may not be able to support the body. 5. There is a list of foods, drinks and medications you will no.longer be able to have or have to be limited. 6. The kidney can be rejected by the recipient. The kidney even taken out CANNOT be put back in. It literally may be too damaged to be replaced in the donor or given to another person.
2026-06-29 00:54:33
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