Rachel | Relationship Coach ✨
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Sunday 28 June 2026 21:36:04 GMT
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Tkb :
After 10 months of him not showing up, he came back this last week in the flesh. Pouring out intimate feelings when we met. Telling me how much he’s missed/needs me. Now he’s planning getaways for us and wants to take me to an amusement park today. 🤷🏻♀️complete whiplash.
2026-06-29 09:14:35
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Mar :
i ended up having that conversation after a few weeks since the breakup (i actually came up with a list of questions), the conversation ended in frustration bc even with all the answers what happened didn't made any sense and told him off 💀 even after these answers I'm still finding myself with many questions THERE WILL BE ALWAYS A GAP, IT'S UP TO YOU TO CLOSE IT
2026-06-29 05:02:42
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dogonfire :
so uh I don't have a lot of people to talk to about this but they today sent me gifts on an game app they knew I play on still but they said they probably wouldn't play ever again, I'm not sure if that's a good sign or if I'm reading into it to much
2026-06-30 00:17:16
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Carl Bezuidenhout :
100 percent what I’m feeling after my avoidant ex ended it abruptly.
2026-06-29 23:07:28
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iamnatedog :
I caught up with my FA six weeks post breakup up. it was really useful, as it provided all the evidence I needed that I need to move on. she doesn't have capacity for the type of loving and secure relationship I deserve.
2026-06-29 01:04:55
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Gqdee :
I’m guilty of wanting answers and the goal was to make things make sense even if I don’t like the answer. Why couldn’t it be a regular break up? There is no “let’s be friends” your actions burned that bridge. Answers would have given me a reason to forgive. Until then I can’t 🤷🏾♂️.
2026-06-29 18:49:59
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Nonchalant :
This is brilliant. Thank you.
2026-06-29 07:50:22
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Brandon Vega :
Could you activate the subtitles? Please, my English is not very good 🥲
2026-06-28 21:47:58
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leete984 :
so true
2026-06-28 22:16:59
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mahsa :
I honestly don't believe that even if the person who discarded you, one day will be ready to give you "an answer", or tries to reach out to you...would be able to give you anything. they may apologize, they may express regret deeply...even say the right words...but none of those would be closure, at best you'd just stop blaming yourself for what happened, now that you have confirmation...but my point is that...that discard was completely irrational, how is that person going to explain something to you that doesn't even make sense? People can't explain going from warm and affectionate to cold, and distant...
2026-06-29 06:50:21
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Kamila Guerrero Richiéz :
This is timely. Thank you
2026-06-29 01:30:50
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TamTam :
sad time we are living in that people have to go to therapy cuz they had a relationship with people who absolutely shouldn't be in one from the first place.
2026-06-29 12:16:00
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bestdealsdaily26 :
I never chased her but Jesus Christ that hurt like fuck!
2026-06-29 02:00:27
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Simply Design Studios :
What about when you’re married and discarded but there’s no forward movement when you share a house, finances, property?
2026-06-29 00:55:34
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InfinitelyRestless :
From the perspective of someone who’s learning as much as I can about this to eventually get through to my avoidant. The let’s meet or talk even if it’s just once more isn’t me looking for answers. Think I see her better than she sees herself sometimes. It’s me attempting to remove the threat of permanence/commitment and reinforce she’s in control of what happens
2026-06-29 20:01:57
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flight2220 :
After being discarded by an FA the person is so traumatized because of what happened that their brain and nervous system goes straight into survival mode. So no, there are no mistakes that people make when they're literally fighting for their lives because yes, it's that traumatic. The only thing that needs to be said about FA's is.... go to therapy and heal yourself so you stop traumatizing TF out of the people who love you.
2026-06-29 00:01:32
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