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Sunday 28 June 2026 21:52:53 GMT
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TheSugarmama33 :
As a child that witnessed it and now have a career in finance, I want to teach women the financial concepts of leaving and keeping your freedom. DV has long-term effects and the ability to develop a plan with financial detachment is key (along with a supportive personal system).
2026-06-29 12:35:55
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🎀God£essWh0r€🎀 :
Thank u for saying the quiet part out loud❣️
2026-06-29 12:08:09
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Kimberly During :
Can we find and reroute the funds to another program or sources?
2026-06-29 13:56:21
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Cischristopher123 :
I most definitely suffered narcissistic abuse in couples therapy.
2026-06-28 23:07:53
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Writing Vesta :
This is devastatingly true. It’s hard to know how to move forward.
2026-06-29 00:37:36
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Cin :
I wrote my first ever paid published article on just this.
2026-06-28 22:38:38
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Rena Yvonne :
thank you for your dedication.
2026-06-29 03:59:29
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madisyne79 :
Such amazing points.
2026-06-28 22:20:29
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charlottesometimekc💙 :
All. Of. This. 😢💔
2026-06-28 22:23:20
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Alison :
Filling out paperwork is the least of it, it’s the actually helping part rather than just talking. It’s systemic. Deeply systemic.
2026-06-29 17:45:21
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Ketchup Sandwiches :
PREACH!
2026-06-29 11:10:34
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PsychedelicFairyTale🦤 :
I have trauma from the professionals supposed to help me
2026-06-28 22:03:23
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Elizabeth_who :
It’s devastating frightened to navigate it all alone and have to trust a system that doesn’t always get it right. You go from one scary situation to another. In both you have little to zero control…
2026-06-29 04:11:30
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Jeanine Pfeiffer :
💯 true. The DV shelter didn’t help me, or any of the other women, like they should’ve. Neither did the county victim’s advocate. Nor the DA’s office. Not the court-appointed mediator. Not the judge. It is SO F***ed UP.
2026-06-29 04:49:09
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Annette René :
There's even more to consider. My abuser was training to be a social worker who wanted to work with women of domestic violence. And the police were beyond awful to me even though I had strong evidence of the beatings and sexual abuse I endured. So even if you try to go through all the steps (especially involving the police) you can definitely be treated like dirt along the way.
2026-06-29 08:32:09
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Quesadilla lover at the farm. :
Leaving resulted in my first criminal charges, first time in jail. The state violence that took over when I set limits with him was more then I could have ever expected
2026-06-29 03:13:49
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KatieintheOzarks :
DFS told me my husband would never see the kids again. family court gave him full custody. he assaulted another daughter
2026-06-29 01:48:38
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Diana Wisecarver :
just went through this tried to get a restraining order (I thought the courts would help me) and somehow I was on trial, he never had to speak, the judge had access to the police report and never looked at it. .. and it was so traumatic that I was stress paralyzed (plus brain fog from having to see him again) and didn't know what i had to say to get an order approved, no guidance what so ever... the order was denied and now the abuser probably feels empowered and it was completely unjust and i actually feel less safe for filling. I froze due to the trauma and left more traumatized.
2026-06-29 01:45:16
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Rachel :
The betrayal by the system broke me worse than the 2 decades of abuse. They added to the suffering, aided my abuser, and made everything so much harder
2026-06-28 22:32:14
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OrganizeBelize :
My IPV advocate has definitely said this is bullshit before, my anger and rage is rational, and I found that very validating.
2026-06-29 02:14:05
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Delta Ondine :
It’s a much more harrowing road when it’s a penniless refugee from a brutal country that has fled certain death or extreme violence, who needs help and resources to get status against a hostile system
2026-06-29 03:44:16
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MargieChicago💜 :
I feel like im still trying to pull myself out of a "DV that led me to being homeless" situation from 3 years ago. I still feel like im drowning 😭
2026-06-29 18:25:20
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Tree :
Also, so many of us experience post-separation abuse in many forms. In my case, it’s organized stalking & harassment for years!
2026-06-29 13:55:30
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Sunny :
I have been made the villain.
2026-06-29 15:46:52
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🌺Jack🌺 :
Being abused through the legal system is the worst. Especially when you called it out from the start.
2026-06-30 07:11:04
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