Abby Rodman | Psychotherapist
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Sunday 28 June 2026 22:09:37 GMT
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Sigmawolf444 :
I should of left first red flag.
2026-06-28 23:07:17
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Sam Villano 🎹 Lifestyle :
I miss who I thought she was
2026-06-29 06:01:22
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Madfish8 :
Extremely disappointed with them and with myself.
2026-06-29 02:38:48
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nawelaimene :
i know i don't miss him. i have this feeling of losing my time for 30 years. it was exhauting
2026-06-29 07:16:30
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Jackie Green :
I have grief for the man I thought I married to the man I got. It has left me broken but I'm slowly getting back up.
2026-07-08 16:18:41
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Shortcake :
You are correct and angry I allowed it to happen, so much!
2026-06-28 23:00:12
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MrSteve :
I wish could get to the anger stage , 2 years out😢
2026-06-28 23:15:51
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Michelle :
I don’t miss him because I “see him” now! But I do miss all those things you said. I’m angry, I’m missing the life I thought I’d have and now I’m figuring out something entirely different. But, I bought a puppy and I’m in love again and I’m smarter now. He looks like a clown to me.
2026-06-29 05:47:27
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Craig :
I miss what could have been 🤔
2026-06-29 05:00:28
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beano :
I’m mad at myself for her treat me the way she did. 😳
2026-06-29 08:29:06
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anita menning :
I don't miss him either, but I just can't get the mean games he played behind my back with my best friend out of my head. She was my best friend for 53 years. I had only known him for 22 months. I supposedly meant the world to him. He had also proposed to me. I found out about this 5 weeks ago 💔
2026-06-29 13:10:49
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Jillibean’s Jive :
I did that at the beginning. I would go back and re-read the devaluation list. Wow! Very powerful tool.
2026-06-29 05:12:59
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Cherie :
Forwarded to my stories
2026-06-28 22:22:18
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Grant Harvey🪶🇨🇦💪✌️ :
Yes after realization you are constantly seeing all the things from the past make more sense on a daily basis at times. I do believe I sorta of new but had a hard time break my commitment which is something I very very rarely ever do. That seems to be the hardest part for myself. Thank you again Miss Rodman🙏🫶👍. 🪶🇨🇦💪✌️
2026-06-29 02:36:01
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Melissa :
I have already written down 300 things
2026-06-29 13:36:04
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✨🎼 Lisa 🪷 :
The bad things list only applies to our logical brain, the amygdala still suffers. I have a giant list of the shitty things he has said and done to me. There are plenty of times I read them when sad but it doesn't take away the 'rosey' thoughts of missing him and the very few 'good times' (that yes were likely just one sided) but the emotion still remains there even while reading the 'ick' list. There's too much cognitive dissonance and disbelief for many abuse survivors, that even the list doesn't settle our thoughts or emotions toward them
2026-06-30 14:50:07
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SoCalRob :
Spot on. Needed to hear this.
2026-06-30 04:24:37
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nwaina :
Its still foggy
2026-06-29 02:28:39
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Michelle :
Thank you!
2026-06-29 04:45:24
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Lisa Anne :
Instead of missing that person, & then remembering all the deep hurts and mental wounds, try truly giving all the toxins and toxicity and surrender them to God and ask God to free you from all of it. When you allow God to truly free you you will feel the biggest, heaviest cement weight that has been trapped and stuck on your mind, body and soul and you will feel it being lifted and replaced with mental refreshing oxygen "finally" and you can finally breathe!! It's so powerful, profound and freeing. ❤️🙏🏼
2026-06-29 00:06:18
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user5501395581256 :
I missed the good times that felt so real, it felt hopeful, like everything was going to be okay. I don’t have those rare moments anymore and I miss them. My gullible self can no longer convince my , awoke to reality self to take him back. Letting go hurts and it feels like a breath of fresh air at the same time.
2026-06-29 11:03:56
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Janette18th :
Your right. I miss the nice side of him, around 20% - 80% was awful 😖
2026-07-01 14:25:53
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Sandy :
Going on 4 months of no contact! I still cry and have no idea what I am crying for anymore. I’m angry one minute, then sad, then in disbelief. I’m all over the place. I know he’s out there with other people OR the person he said was worth him walking away from 42 years. Waiting on my attorney to start divorce proceedings which for the life of me I cannot understand what’s taking so long! That’s another issue that now I cannot get anyone to call me back with what’s the hold up! I feel STUCK, STRESSED and STAGNANT. 😔
2026-06-30 11:52:59
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nilindee :
This is so true. I do this every time I romanticise and miss him and it always works.
2026-06-29 18:18:48
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MAYHEMaz :
Exactly! 24 yrs.
2026-06-29 05:55:55
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